me and this guy had sex for the first time together. he was not a virgin, but i was. he knew before we had sex that i was a virgin. however, the first time we had sex together he did not speak much at all. the second time we had sex together, he treated me like it was my first time. he even said to me "you said you were a virgin right"..and i said "do you remember what happened the other night?" and he said "yes, we had sex."..so it's not like he forgot, so maybe he was asking to double check that i had been a virgin before i was with him. anyhow, the second time he was really caring, and physically helpful, and he constantly asked me if i was alright, and told me to tell him when to stop, and if he was hurting me
2007-01-15 14:36:07 · 8 answers · asked by jennifer a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That guy is strange. Maybe he was crunked up the 1st time.
2007-01-15 14:39:53 · answer #1 · answered by jengels2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could me that he may have did some thinking about the last time he was with you to be more careful or maybe he talked to someone that made him think that he may have made you feel bad. I would be thankful that he asked the next time. But I would think about your situation as to is he your boy or just some 'guy' as you described him. If he is just some guy to you and usually women never enjoy losing their virginity as much as the guy enjoys you-do you think that he may be using you? Don't you really want to make love to someone who professes and proves his love to you? You may not feel used now but if he doesn't have any ties to you then you just may eventually. But it's your thang do what you wanna do...
2007-01-16 00:36:31 · answer #2 · answered by MeHurdu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it means that between the 1st and 2nd time you had sex together, he thought about it and realizd that the 1st time, he wasnt very sensitive to you, and now he wants to make sure that he is.
Why dont you just ask him, why was he not as sensitive the 1st time as he was the 2nd time?
2007-01-15 22:42:18 · answer #3 · answered by WORLD FAMOUS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're boyfriend is getting his rocks off because he knows you're a virgin. to some men that's very sex to them and because you're pure. he also doesn't want to hurt you so he's being careful you have a good guy so far Good luck with this guy!!!
2007-01-15 22:43:40 · answer #4 · answered by dthsmx5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was he drunk the first time? Hmmm... maybe he was just really scared the first time and afraid to say anything... and then he was trying to make up for that the second time? I dunno.... too soon to tell where his head is at.
2007-01-15 22:41:22 · answer #5 · answered by quickgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is probably self consious. like omg im the first guy she had sex with so i ave to be the best. like its how guys work. i dont know their brain or something.
2007-01-15 22:41:49 · answer #6 · answered by Agu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So he was an oddball the first time and you did him again? Do you do that with everyone?
2007-01-15 22:42:02 · answer #7 · answered by tko43078 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how sweet.
2007-01-15 22:40:13 · answer #8 · answered by laura m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋