ok.. imagine a bf from another state that u found out was cheating on u. then when u tell him that u know he's not true, he says he was drunk and he wants u back.... he ends up stalking u and comes to your house and wants to talk with u constantly...
whats the best thing u can think of that you could say to that ex- bf or what your friend could say to your ex- bf
this is not my situation. i would be the friend that needs something to say to a horrible boy that needs to leave my friend alone...
if anyone could help.. that would ROCK like none other...
2007-01-15 14:34:03 · 13 answers · asked by Hannabelle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
YES, THE COME BACK LINE IS ...."TAKE THAT MUTHA FUCKA" WHILE YOUR'E PEPPER SPRAYING HIS @SS! LOL.
2007-01-15 14:38:08 · answer #1 · answered by Common_Sense2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men respond to the direct approach. Tell him that you no longer want anything to do with him because he cheated on you and there is nothing he can do or say that will change that.
This will work because the man is probably not actually stalking your friend. He knows that most women are full of crap most of the time and change their minds at the drop of the hat. In other words, he keeps coming around because he knows there is a good chance your friend will just change her mind, hop into bed with him and then things will be back the way they were. He has learned this from direct experience. However, all normal men, if you clearly and directly tell them differently, will believe you. Once he knows that things are actually over, he will disappear. Likely, he will have a new girlfriend the very next week. It's not a big deal.
Now, a real stalker, acts nothing like this. He's all about revenge and punishing the woman. He acts and talks bizarre. He threatens her. The point of his behavior isn't reconciliation. It's fear. A man like this doesn't want to talk to you about getting back together. He wants you to feel afraid and sorry that you dared deny him. The difference between the two could not be greater. These types of guys don't just start acting like that one day. It's part of a greater pattern of being a psycho. In other words, your ex-boyfriend who doesn't quite understand that you are serious about things being over, isn't like this. It's the guy who beat you every day you were together and told you if you ever left he would cut your throat that engages in stalking.
2007-01-15 14:44:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not talk to a stalker at all, or interact with him in any way. Have a male person make the message on her answering machine, screen all calls, don't acknowledge him in any way at all, ever. If he comes near her, you or the house call the police immediately and she probably shouldn't be at home alone if she can help it. And definitely get a restraining order. It may seem like just a nuisance now, but if he really is stalking her, it can escalate into something really ugly. This isn't about getting him back, or getting some sort of satisfaction, or playing any games. This is about safety, and being smart.
2007-01-15 14:46:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best comeback is a Restraining Order. It's always a nice surprise to a stalker when the deputies bang on your door, or come to your work and serve you with papers.
2007-01-15 14:38:11 · answer #4 · answered by morahastits 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell the boy to back off and leave.
i dont like u anymore.
the best way is to get a bf that wont cheat on u and u both like each other.
get the other boy to understand that he is no longer in her heart, she got some1 better for her.
leave her alone or she will call the cops or something.
this is actually SEXUAL HARASSSEMENT!!!
if he doesnt stop, i think u should do that.
i hope this helps!!! XD
2007-01-15 14:41:53 · answer #5 · answered by dance_babe_xoxoxox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you have to the count of three to get in your car and leave or I'm calling the police. Then do so and have her get a restraining order.
2007-01-15 14:38:28 · answer #6 · answered by kny390 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't say anything just get a restraining order and have the Marshall's deliver it. Problem solved and no drama.:-)
2007-01-15 14:41:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She shouldn't give him a comeback. Tell her to just call the police.
2007-01-15 14:37:16 · answer #8 · answered by addict for dramatic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him I was perfectly drunk when I thought of being with you so I guess we're even :-)
2007-01-15 14:39:47 · answer #9 · answered by Connie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
say you were the biggest mistake that i ever made
or say can you please do me a favour and lose my number, and if those don't get him then think of something that he told you that really upsets him, bring it up and say something harsh about it, he will be upset i know but atlease he will piss off! haha
2007-01-15 14:38:40 · answer #10 · answered by * <3 Summer <3* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You ain't celery so quit stalking! hehe
Go back to stalkin yo momma.
2007-01-15 14:38:37 · answer #11 · answered by sticky 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋