Okay, I'm 14 and if I decide 2 have sex will it hurt?I know your hymen breaks but does it always hurt? What are the chances of it not and is it really that bad? The guy I am thinking about doing it with is the same age as me. Advice please!
2007-01-15 14:31:45 · 32 answers · asked by confuzzledchickadee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Everyones different....one of my friends said it didn't hurt at all....But it hurt me so bad!!! use lots of lube, bite your lip, and just do it....it gets better after the first few times.
2007-01-15 14:38:05 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please wait to have sex until you're least an adult (18) if you don't think you can wait until marriage. Having sex too young can hurt you emotionally and that hurt will last much longer than any physical discomfort.
At your age, you and your friend need to be concentrating on school and preparing for your future. Yes, you still can have fun but being involved in a sexual relation can be an emotional burden.
2007-01-15 14:40:52 · answer #2 · answered by susandiane311 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It will hurt like you can't even imagine! If not physically, then emotionally and spiritually. You are far too young to be making this kind of decision, sweetie. There are SO MANY good things to enjoy as a child. Live your life. There is plenty of time for that later on. At your age--and your friend's age--neither of you are emotionally equipped to make a decision of this size. I know that sounds crazy, but it's true. The fact that you actually asked this question should clue you to the fact that you are NOT READY.
2007-01-15 14:39:14 · answer #3 · answered by mrvid2002 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What is your purpose for having sex when u r not married? What can happen is that you will continue to have sex with different boys and destroy your body for nothing. Sex is over rated, and you can catch all kind of stds. Care about yourself. Don't follow the world; dare to be different. It will be a good thing, and you will not regret it. You don't realize how many women wished they had remained a virgin until they were married. If you don't have to, don't give yourself a lot wrong doing regrets.
2007-01-15 14:39:43 · answer #4 · answered by pleasantville982001 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, Yes it will hurt.
Second, don't miss out on the joys of being 14 by doing things that should wait to early. I was your age when I first had sex and it certainly didn't do me any good. You should wait, it will be much better if you wait until the right time
2007-01-15 14:38:39 · answer #5 · answered by Foxy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey you're just way to young. Are you sure you want to give it away so early? Wait at least until you'll 16 or something. And for your question, YES it does hurt. You will feel uncomfortable the first time and if you do ALWAYS wear a condom.
2007-01-15 14:41:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well like the first time it wasnt to bad i couldnt sit normally for awhile but it was alright.. and your hymen does always break and it doesnt always hurt ethier.. use a condom dude believe me man
2007-01-15 14:38:07 · answer #7 · answered by XxNirVanA-Rox!xX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first answer is to tell you to wait until your are older. But yes, it hurts the first time. Some people deal with pain better than others. It doesn't hurt forever.
2007-01-15 14:35:58 · answer #8 · answered by tko43078 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i was 14 and my hymen didnt break. i dont know what happened. anyway, it hurt alot but like..in a good way i cant explain. not enough to make you cry but the guy needs to take it slloowwww and on top is not a position to try your first time, the penetration is too deep. and please please please wait until youre in love, or else youll feel deep regret
2007-01-15 14:38:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all 14... wtf... don't do it at age 14. Prolly not even till age 18. Try babysitting a 1 yr old for 5 hours and then see how you feel... what would it be like having to do that for 24/7? YOU WOULDN'T LIKE IT!
So yea... im 16... and im sorry to be so like nerrr but really USE URE HEAD!
2007-01-15 14:35:40 · answer #10 · answered by L 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋