i've known this guy for 5 years and we have been casually having sex once or twice a week for the past 2 years. I think he's getting boring so what if i told him i dont want to anymore. without telling him hes getting boring.
2007-01-15 14:03:30 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just stop, who cares what he thinks...
2007-01-15 14:21:18 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
So what if he gets angry --- there's nothing worse than feeling like you have to do it when your heart isn't in it. It doesn't sound like there's any passion so what's the point -- it's keeping you from the "real" one if you're preoccupied with this "casual" one. If you present it to him the right way he won't be angry --- In the past I used the excuse they were too large for me to accommodate (of course, I hadn't had them previously so that obviously wouldn't work for you unless you said you were worried about getting stretched out of shape) - but that excuse works splendidly - it feeds their ego. Or, in the alternative it's not just up to the guy if it's starting to get boring --- he may be getting bored, too. You could spice it up some with candles, lotions and potions, whipped cream, role playing, sexy lingerie, a bubble bath, late night picnic, a dress with crotchless pantihose -- let your imagination go-- good luck.
2007-01-15 22:19:00 · answer #2 · answered by GrnEyedBlondeSwede 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i do think that he will be to angry as you said its only a casual sex, and if thats all there is to it then leave him, tell him you dont want to do this anymore. If you are in a relationship then it sounds to me that you just dont want him full stop. and i think that its better to let the dude know than to continue the relationship. or why dont you spice up the sex abit more.
2007-01-15 22:15:15 · answer #3 · answered by Bex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if it will make him angry as I don't know his temperament. He will, however, cop an attitude about it. The only advice I can give you is not to do something that you don't want to do. On top of that, don't feel guilty about your decision (b/c he will most likely throw that in too). On the other hand, if you want to continue the relationship as is, try to spice it up some. Who knows, maybe you'll get back into it.
2007-01-15 22:12:53 · answer #4 · answered by Therese 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like the sex sounds like you just need to spice stuff a or something, try changing the location like do it outside (not in the open sight but where you could maybe get cought) stuff like that for variety. Or maybe some toys you can use on him?
2007-01-15 22:11:34 · answer #5 · answered by barefoot_always 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, he's probably going to get pissed that he's losing his easy peice of ***. If he's that boring and you don't really like him that much, who cares? Anyhow, just tell him you don't want to. Telling him it's getting boring might be a permanent ego blow and make things messy.
2007-01-15 23:42:53 · answer #6 · answered by canterbury23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that you've decided if you are going to have sex w/ someone it has to be someone in a serious relationship and you just don't feel right about "doing it" with him anymore.
2007-01-15 22:07:45 · answer #7 · answered by desi 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him he bores you in bed.Try and be honest! Now go buy some aa batteries for your toy.
2007-01-15 22:07:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just dont make any noise when u guys are having sex next time he will get it the hard way
2007-01-15 22:13:04 · answer #9 · answered by combs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so whats the problem, just end it, or give him pointers on making it not boring anymore
2007-01-15 22:11:39 · answer #10 · answered by zether 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just stop sleeping with him...u dont have to continue doin it if u dont want to. just tell him u want a relationship (not with him) and that it will be hard to find one if ur sleepin with him
2007-01-15 22:07:00 · answer #11 · answered by Onie 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋