Everything's changed in a relationship?! HELP!!?

Question

Hi guys...

Me and her have been together for 7 months, love each other very much, and we can never let of of each other. But first week of January, we had our problems and they started. I guess the main was one since it was winter break we weren't able to talk as often and we both felt distanced, and tried to hide that from each other, but eventually got that resolved by saying nothing to hide anything from each other. I guess we both are way to nice and afraid of hurting each other's feelings that's why we didn't. So everything was fine till then, and now.. today she said she felt nothing was the same and felt there was a distance. I never felt that way! Last night i was talking to her because she wasn't responding so i kept asking her since i was worried what's wrong. i asked her what i can do to make the distance go away and everything back to normal. no response. all she said was it will go one day or the other. then i told her i never want to loose her and she said you I won't.

EDIT: over the weekend she was busy with her relatives wedding and we hardly ever talked till sunday night.. I AM REALLY AFRAID AND SCARED OF NOTHING BEING THE SAME!! WHAT SHOULD I DO?! HELP!!!

I can't put it to words how much i love you. I love her to death. There's nothing else matters to me in this world other than her... I have said some stupid stuff to hurt her and make her sad and break her heart last night and in the e-mail, but i apologized and said sorrry million times!! I don't know what to do.. i just don't want to loose her!!

Answer 1

It appears that you have to learn to accept some things to be the way they are especially if you helped created them. They are to remind you to THINK about the outcome before you allow your feelings to make you say things you could later regret. It sounds as though you are very messed up over the situation and I can understand because love hurts but the pain doesn't have to last always if learn that if she doesn't feel the same about you then you have to eventually let it go or get arrested! Give her some time AND space if you really love her because you WILL make her hate you. I'm sorry for your pain but like the rest of us you have to learn that control is only for yourself, you can't control her or anyone else, regardless of how many times you say sorry. Sometimes the damage has been done-just learn to THINK before you speak next time.

Answer 2

i think you need to spend a whole weekend with her,just you and her,and while your cuddling,tell her how you feel and ask her how she feels,if it works out,dont stop the communication between you two,never stop talking,call her every day even if its just to say hi or to tell her you love her.i hope you work it out