so we broke up and every thing and a cupple nights ago she IM me and said hey can we betogether but be single...because i dont wunna lose you....n so i went along with it....then last night we kinda got into a lil fight n i told her it was done n over with...n im not gunna act like im with her....n she signed off then came back on later and IM me again and was like i still love you and i miss you and i still got feelins for you n i relly dont wunna lose you.....n she asked if we could still do the whole be together but stay sinlge thing4 a lil while cuz shes thinkin she wants to be be back with me if things go good with that....idk im confused about the hole thing....like i wunna be with her still and all that do u think i should give her tha time she needs?.....what do all you think? plz help me out and let me know what you think plz!!!!
2007-01-15 13:56:55 · 9 answers · asked by Kyle P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She's playing you. She's no good. It may hurt at first but trust me there are plenty of good ones out there.
2007-01-15 14:03:08 · answer #1 · answered by SLY ONE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I kinda did that to my husband about a year before we got engaged. I didn't mean to be playing games, I was just confused.
Give her some time. What got us back together was he stopped coming around and texting and stuff, then i started missing him and I saw him with an ex and realized I didnt want to lose him.
2007-01-15 22:05:16 · answer #2 · answered by jenchell1994 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really think she is playing games. She want to be with you and still be single at the same time? That's stupid! You can be putting all your time and effort into someone who wants to be commited to only you. She is using you and wants you when she is ready. It's sounds like she knows she got you wrapped around her finger and you fall for it every time. Show her that you are not playing and believe me, she will act right!
2007-01-15 22:07:24 · answer #3 · answered by Mesha 3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wants to be with u but wants to be single? that dont work, she just wants u to not go with anyone else incase she cant find a better deal. if u really want to be with her, tell her that u can be together, but as a couple, not as single however that is supposed to wrk. if she cant accept that then she really doesnt love u and is just after one thing until somethin better comes along.
2007-01-15 22:02:12 · answer #4 · answered by Onie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is playing games. She says that to you because she knows you will take her back whenever she feels lonely and wants someone to keep her company. don;t be that guy that she goes back to only to satisfy herself. Just let it go. She either wants to be with you or she doesn't.
2007-01-15 22:04:02 · answer #5 · answered by cHiKiBaBe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like to me that she has someone else she is talking to someone else and you and seeing which one works out first. She can't have her cake and eat it too. She can't be with you and still be single. That is why I say she is talking to someone else. I could be wrong but it sounds fishy.
2007-01-15 22:32:06 · answer #6 · answered by country girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's dumb . . . and desperate. That is so pathetic, don't go out with someone like that. Yeah. She's playing games. But who knows, maybe you like drama?
2007-01-15 22:03:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok...this happened to my cuz... dude it isnt woking out! If u were
right 4 each other u woudnt have broken up. im sorry but i think u
need to let her go. :-(
P.S. u will find "the girl" but mabey its not her....
2007-01-15 22:05:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go for it. tell her okay. its ilske yall are 'dating' but not monogomous, even though it sounds like yall will be. Yall will eventually have that title.
2007-01-15 22:02:13 · answer #9 · answered by josh/julie m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋