I am now 15 years old. I haven't had a first kiss. I haven't had a boyfriend yet. How do I get a guy to like me without changing who I am? I am sorry, but I am just desperate to know.
2007-01-15 13:55:21 · 14 answers · asked by bubble_bath951 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You don't get a guy to like you it just happens. Be patient and things will turn out fine.
2007-01-15 14:01:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I remember when I was 15 years old I thought the same thing. Actually, I didn't have my first kiss probably until I was 16 or 17. There is nothing wrong with being your age and not having a first kiss. You are young and have plenty of time to experience dating! Sometimes when you begin dating too soon, you start to regret things that you do, so taking your time and finding someone you really like is worth waiting for. But never change who you are: how would you like it if you dated a guy and found out that he wasn't being himself? You would feel upset that this person wasn't real. No one wants to date someone who tries to impress. I remember the best guys to date were the ones who were just being themselves. The confidence they portrayed really made me like them for who they were. So just take it slow; and DONT be desperate. Always keep a part of you for yourself without laying all the cards out on the table. Getting to know someone a little bit at a time is way more exciting then knowing everything about them all at once. So just be yourself and you will attract a lot of guys by doing so.
2007-01-15 22:04:03 · answer #2 · answered by just ask 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have to make a guy like you nor change who you are. Just continue being who you are and the boys will come. You shouldn't feel embarrassed (if you are) or anything about being 15 and not having your first kiss, I didn't have my first kiss until I was 18. If you really care for the guy you're with and he feels the same I assure you it'll be phenomenal.
2007-01-15 22:03:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said it yourself you are 15! Why would you want to have a guy that you would have to explain your morals too...you are going to have to change if you are with a guy...they are going to want to be affectionate...I don't know of anyone that is in a relationship that is not affectionate like holding hands, kissing, etc.
2007-01-15 22:04:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you wont have to change "you", but you can change maybe the way you look. like try to wear clothes that show a little more skin, for makeup- just wearing maskara looks pretty if you have pretty eyes. tighter clothes and designer clothes (abercrombie, holister, ae) it sounds stupid but guys like designer clother. don't fret bout not having kissed yet! u r only 15!! its not like youre 80!! you have a whole lotta time girlie!! have fun with just trying new things. but make sure, that you never ever change ur personality! good luck!!
2007-01-15 22:01:55 · answer #5 · answered by Renee C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple. Be yourself and whoever likes you will like you for who you are. Be true to yourself and the right guy will like you. But if you think you have to change who you are to get a guys attention it's not worth it.
Good Luck!
2007-01-15 22:02:09 · answer #6 · answered by Sara M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was having the same promblem as you....an idea would be try meeting guys from other schools sometimes after u go to a school with the same people for a long time guys see u more as a friend if u meet guys from other schools than can see u as more than just a friend
2007-01-15 22:00:26 · answer #7 · answered by xoxflyer09 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think right now you're just to anxious. you will find someone. believe me. right now it seems like "oh my god am i ever going to have a boyfriend!?" haha but it's going to happen and it's going to be amazing and you will realize it at that moment that the wait was worth it and that you were worth it. Believe me no boy is worth changing who you are, if he likes you and then he likes EVERYTHING about you even the bad. BELIEVE ME, i've felt like this too, but it happens i promise. just be patient. = ]
2007-01-15 22:01:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
15 and never been kissed i got my fist kiss when i was like 6
Just be yourself!
2007-01-15 22:03:28 · answer #9 · answered by mary_loves_christ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay true to yourself. Don't change because you like a guy. If he likes you he should like you for you and not because he is trying to have sex with you or change you.
2007-01-15 22:00:44 · answer #10 · answered by Sandra C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋