I've been dating this guy for 4 months now ... They just hired this new girl and I just found out that she already hooked up with him (only been there for one week). Is this guys just using her? Should I be angry at the girl or the guy?
2007-01-15 13:51:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should dump him...
2007-01-15 14:07:42 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he did not tell her that he is in a relationship, making her believe that he was single and available, you should be angry at him. After all, you cannot hold her responsible for something she was not made aware of. If she knew about you and still went ahead and got involved with him, they are both equally to blame.
2007-01-15 21:59:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be angry with the guy never get angry at the girl unless she knows the guy has a girlfriend
2007-01-15 21:56:20 · answer #3 · answered by just anotha chick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy definitely. Why the girl? She has no relationship with you, but the guy does. He's a user all right, and he's using you too. I'd move on as quickly as possible.
2007-01-15 21:57:07 · answer #4 · answered by micheyL 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the problem with us females today, is we are so quick to blame the women when it was the man who did us dirty. 1) she probably knew about you, but your not dating her, he didn't have to go that route with that girl. 2) he probably didn't tell the girl anything about you, or made you look like you were just a friend. so girl no matter how much we want to blame the female for being the reason for the fall of our relationships, the reality is the man is the one to blame!!
2007-01-15 22:06:05 · answer #5 · answered by T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be angry at him..hes supposed to be with you but he hooked up with her, she may not have known about u and hes the one that cheated on u
2007-01-15 21:54:56 · answer #6 · answered by Onie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should direct your anger towards the guy, you don't have a relationship with the girl.
2007-01-15 21:56:02 · answer #7 · answered by sandramunroe11550 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shoudl be mad at him and stop dating him. She probably didn't even know yall were together. and if she did then you have a right to be mad at her too but this guys is a GIANT LOSER who doesn't give a **** about you. DUMP HIM!
2007-01-15 21:57:46 · answer #8 · answered by josh/julie m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should feel angry at the guy
2007-01-15 21:55:46 · answer #9 · answered by zaneta j 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on the thought. If the girl didn't know he was going out with someone then she is innocent and you should not be mad at her. NO MATTER WHAT, he does not deserve you and he is a jerk
2007-01-15 21:56:17 · answer #10 · answered by Flordia Keyss 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should be mad at both of them! I think you should dump the guy and 4get about them
2007-01-15 21:56:26 · answer #11 · answered by filipino_chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋