can a guy ask you?

Question

to not use a condom during sex? is it just for his pleasure even though everytime we have sex he uses one. does it feel better for the woman as well? and will he ask to take it off, or will he just take it off without you knowing? and do you give a guy head then if you don't use a condom, so he can finish?

Answer 1

A guy can ask whatever he wants (as can a woman) but if you aren't pretty darned sure he's disease free and he's not pretty darned sure you are disease free, you are both fools for not using a condom.

Risking both your health (and maybe lives) isn't worth however much better it feels without one.

Answer 2

He can ask. The answer is up to you. Really, these are just judgement calls on your part. Lettting him go au natural is risky these days, even he say's he's clean. If a guy wears a cap, and takes it off without permission, or in secret, you'll more than likely know it, but what do about it is up to you. As to how it feels, some like it better, some don't it's a matter of persona. And to the last tidbit there, it's doesn't have to be oral sex for him to "Spit some yogurt," as a matter of fact there are quite a number of exciting way you cause an ejaculation, specially when he's already close anyway. Be creative, mix it up a bit. It might seem a little strange, but strange can be very... VERY good.

Answer 3

How old are you? You can not possibly be an adult if you are asking such naive questions. Of course he can ask you anything he wants. It's whether or not you are stupid enough to have sex without the condom and risk catching numerous STD's some curable but alot not curable. Do you want to have to go around the rest of your life telling each partner you may have in the future about the disease you caught from unprotected sex? That is what you will have to do. It will then be your legal responsibility to tell each of them what you have so they have the informed knowledge of what they risk by having sex with you and they can decide if it's worth the risk or not.
No guy likes to wear a condom. They are uncomfortable and they can't feel as much. BUT the smart responsible guy is going to wear one and the smart responsible girl is going to make sure that he IS wearing one. And if he doesn't want to wear one then you need to tell him to get lost. You don't need a loser who has probably been having sex with multiple partners and risk catching what ever he may have caught or even given to someone else. Be SMART. You will be having sex with him and every single other person he has ever slept with. Do you want to take that risk???? Will it be worth it? 5 minutes of pleasure for a possible life time of pain and possible death? I dont' think so.

Answer 4

A guy can ask me to not use one but since I'm not stupid and I value my life very much I don't. As sensations with/without condom that is bull! You can fit both hands inside a condom so comfort wise, if the guy is bigger than your two hands then he has no business trying to have sex with you or he will tear you apart. Do I feel better without the condom? No difference whatsoever, except that i feel at ease knowing I'm safe. And a guy CAN finish with the condom on, I will give him a hand job without a condom but that is as far as i go.

Answer 5

yes it feels better for both, but the few minutes of pleasure isnt worth a lifetime of pain that could follow from disease, i meet alot of people in my travels, i met a man that had aids, he said that a cold lasts for 6 months and he is hospital bound,life threatening, also he gets these big sores that pop up on his skin, his medication costs 1000 dollars per month he calls it the aids cocktail insurance doesnt cover him, his life will be ultimately taken away from him in a painful manner, and every year hus body becomes immune to the medication, so he is given higher doses and different meds, he contracted the disease from the first woman that he ever had sex with, he can never be with another partner for the rest of his life, and is slowly running out of money at the end of his money will come the slow excruciating death, that he has to think about every day, this made me think of how so very,very important protection is, those few moments of pleasure are not worth the risk of that horrific death, so you decide, i choose life without disease, i hope that this story impacts you and anyone else that reads this, i never knew how bad it really was until i heard that, now you know use a condom no one can tell if ssomeone has it, there are no signs be safe everyone

Answer 6

I think it feels better without a condom, but of course that should only be done under certain circumstances...not to be done with random, casual sex. You will most likely know if he takes it off, he's probably going to have to stop having sex, pull out, and take it off; unless he's Houdini. Please, since you seem a little uninformed, use a condom or some other form of birth control...we don't need more ignorant people running around.

Answer 7

If the guy is truly thinking, he will not just take it off or ask to go without. It does feel better without, but as the music goes, five minutes of pleasure nine months of pain. As far as giving a guy head so he can finish, that is up to you.

Answer 8

if this is more a casual relationship and you don't have a huge commitment it is not acceptable for him to ask you if he can go with out a condom. THINK STDS and PREGNANCY.
and it doesn't feel any different for the girl.... I PROMISE!

and as far and giving head... yea you can get STDs in your mouth too that can be quit obvious

Answer 9

If he takes it off without your knowledge, he is putting your life in danger. If he asks whether he can take it off, the answer should be no until he has produced proof that he is free from STD's. This is not about "feeling better", this is about catching an illness that has no cure. Think about it.

Answer 10

He can ask you and trust me they will!! If you are smart you will use one to prevent unwanted pregnancy and diseases. It does feel better but it is not worth the risk you put yourself in. Same applies for oral. Most men and women fprefer it with out but you can get herpes that way. Just make sure you and your partner are clean and then go on from there.