OK this guy i know is my ex.....last year we went out... after we broke up like 2 months later he moved to Bham.the only way we can talk is by myspace.well we were talking the other day and I told him i miss him all the time.but we said we both wanted to take things slow but he said if i desided i wanted to go out with him he would...three days later i asked him out and he said he had a girlfriend as of that day.I was really mad at him......SO I told him to never talk to me again untill he was single... Then he got off line so i couldnt say i was sorry.Now he is never on line when i m....So what do i do?
2007-01-15 13:46:47 · 10 answers · asked by Casey B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm sure that he will accept a letter mailed the old fashion way. Humbly tell him that you still care very much for him even though he has a girlfriend. Tell him that it wasn't reasonable to think that you two could stay single and faithful with the distance between you so because of that you are going to love him enough to allow him to be happy even if it's not with you. Tell him that you wish things could be the same as last year but you now understand things are what they are and if he and his new girlfriend don't make it, you'll be there for him to prove what the word "friend" in girlfriend means. Work it girl! You have history! But I believe that if you give yourself time and a chance you will find a guy yourself. What's good for the goose is also good for the gander.
2007-01-15 14:03:07 · answer #1 · answered by MeHurdu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of 2 matters: a million. He discovered you prefer him, hence making him very worried round you as he is not certain how to behave, and is maybe seeking to make a decision whether or not or no longer he likes you. two. He likes you, and by way of pronouncing "you are good enough" he is seeking to disguise is right emotions and no longer come throughout too strongly. I do precisely the identical factor myself. Tell him the way you believe. What's the worst that might occur? He says he does not believe the identical means, then you definately get a few closure and you'll be able to transfer on together with your lifestyles. But from what you've gotten mentioned, I do not suppose that'll be the reaction. :) Good success.
2016-09-07 22:40:43 · answer #2 · answered by lounsberry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You made your position pretty clear by stating that he can't talk to you again until he's single. Nothing like putting ultimatums on a friendship ... it never works. Bummer, though ... you could have had a really good guy for a friend,... or more .. a lover, later on. You blew that one.
2007-01-15 13:53:16 · answer #3 · answered by restless_nymph 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not worth the time and effort. Move on and find someone who will treat you better and who will appreciate you. It may hurt now, but in the long run you will be happy you did.
2007-01-15 13:55:03 · answer #4 · answered by patience032651 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has a girlfriend then there is nothing you can do but move on. I'm sure you dont want to be the other woman.
2007-01-15 13:50:31 · answer #5 · answered by cHiKiBaBe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
G'day Casey B,
Thank you for your question.
I would try and move on as he apparently has. If he is online, I would apologise for saying something mean and wish him the best.
Regards
2007-01-15 13:52:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait till he's single and online, and apoligize!!! if you're sweet enough, he'll come aruond. but dont stop there, butter him up a little, tell him what a perfect guy he is. then he'll think twice about you.
2007-01-15 13:50:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on.
2007-01-15 13:50:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on and find someone who will appreciate you!
2007-01-15 13:49:43 · answer #9 · answered by shelly v 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on. he has
2007-01-15 13:49:29 · answer #10 · answered by Miranda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋