Do guys hide their real feelings about actually liking a plusize girl?

Question

I think a lot og guys out there really do find bigger girls attractive, especially when they have a bomb personality! However, does the fear of what OTHER guys may say or the type of girl society says is hot keep some guys from being real?

Answer 1

Oh yes indeed.
However, some will not, especially if the girl has the three killer combo, great eyes, great Mind, great voice, any one is a Great, but all three wow, a killer Combo and some plus size girls have the killer combo in droves.

Answer 2

The truth of the matter is that attraction is based on various factors that people generally miss. Most of the time it has to do with being able to have good, healthy offspring and to ensure them a future.

How attractive a person is to another civilized person is affected by this, in the socially evolved psychological sense. Nowadays fat is ugly, young and thin is beautiful. In the middle ages it was the other way around. Fat women had food to eat, and thus were more attractive to a certain degree, though even then, the fairer women were more successful.

This latter fact has to do with another attribute of our attractiveness: the basic instincts. It is a proven scientific fact that humans can even sense symmetry through smell. Our psyche is searching for fairer females due to their better genetics and the way we are built. We are built to reproduce.

Last but not least, in the philosophical sense, I would suggest giving a deep read on Plato's works... Take Ion for example, it's one of his shortest works, but applied to humans, there should be a primordial metaphysical form of what a person is, and nature is the artist trying to "imitate" this form, though it fails always, as no imitation is as good as the original. The closer it is, the prettier. You have the power of "God" (Atme), you have will. Inside you, you have the capability to be beautiful inside. But the heavier females normally show one thing: lack of will. Thus are less attractive, their inner beauty is lacking will, and will power lets you control your fate.

Answer 3

GREAT QUESTION!

I can answer this from both sides as I've just lost 65lbs in the last year.

1. Ugly is ugly even if the girl is skinny. You can be beautiful and still be fat.
2. People are nicer to you when you are fit.
3. The younger the guy the more likely he is to be concerned about your weight. Guys who are in school and go to clubs won't give you a second glance. Any man whose self esteem is dependent on the girl on his arm won't talk to you.
4. Men will go after a plus size girl just for sex, they think because of your size you are desperate and will let them do whatever they want.
5. I am much happier fit but my boyfriend claims it never mattered to him. I don't know if that's true but I love him for saying it.

Answer 4

Totally!! I am a plus size girl and have a great personality...i have skinny friends that are shocked when guys are attracted to me and sometimes act as though the guys must be desperate to be interested in me...but i have found as ive gotten older that if you are attractive and LARGER but have a kick butt personality they will go for it...if they are secure with themselves and wont care what their friends think...seems like there are more and more guys out there that like thick women...of course there are the guys that want a skinny trophy wife and have to keep up appearances...but usually they are fake...so steer clear anyhow!

Answer 5

Some bigger girls are attractive and some aren't. Those with rubenesque figures are in great demand (remember Mae West?), but those built like a sack of potatoes (Roseanne Barr?) are not.

When a man fears what others will say about his bigger size girlfriend, it's not because only he thinks she's attractive - it's because he knows she isn't, but doesn't mind their private sessions together.

Answer 6

I think there may be more truth to your statement than you believe. Also I think it also depends on were you live. I'm from the midwest and when I was in high school I was considered a little larger that what was perceived as beauty but, when I went to college in the south my few extra pounds were embraced. Men in the south sometimes like a more natural curvy woman.

Answer 7

Honey, where I'm from they like them thick. There are plenty of men who like plus size. A lot of men want cushion, softness, cuddleness. I have heard some guys say that some slim females hurt them when they have intercourse. If you look good, smell good, I mean from head to toe, and don't be sloppy with it, put on a fitting bra that hold up the bossoms, you got it made. I'm thick myself and I'll be fifty, and I weigh over 200 hundred, but I wear it well.

Answer 8

I hate to say it. You will only find a handful of guys that really like chubby girls. For the most part they like the skinny supermodel types which it sounds like we are not. But don't give up hope, you will eventually find someone that will like/love you for yourself and not based on the size jeans that you might wear.

Answer 9

Greenberg is a crapman! Just because society tells us skinny is hot doesn't always make it that way! As a guy you've got to know what you really want instead of just adapting to the....media or whatever. Well I don't really think I've answered your question...and I don't think I can. That was just my 2 cents.
Thx for reading!! (and hopefully understanding)

Answer 10

I would agree with you... not everyone can be a perfect 10 and most guys or girls that are a perfect 10 have a nasty personality...which makes them real ugly... love the person inside and go from there.