I had been talking to my crush before Christmas break and he really seemed to like me. He was nice and I enjoyed talking to him. But after break he sort of started avoiding me. One day I went up to him and asked him if he had email..he said he didn`t..so I went farther and asked him if he wanted to get together or exchange phone numbers and he replied "I don`t know..." like he didn`t want to. Now I feel like I`ve ruined it and made him feel creeped out around me. Now it`s ackward between the two of us and I wish that I hadn`t said that to him. Is there any way I can win him back? Is there anything I can do?
2007-01-15 13:33:10 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think you should step off for a wile but after a like a month or so just start a random conversation with him it dose not have to be about anythin important it could be about music i dose not matter than just start to talk to him more and more each day and see were it gose from there.
2007-01-15 13:45:31 · answer #1 · answered by K Teal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on, Dia. I'm afraid that this guy just isn't interested. You'd be wasting time and energy if you invested it in him. He may have been put off by your assertive approach, but if he felt the same way you did, it wouldn't have bothered him at all. In fact, he probably would have been flattered.
Direct your efforts and attention elsewhere. If he comes around, fine. If he doesn't, well...that's okay, too. You'll just attract someone who deserves you more than he does.
2007-01-15 21:41:11 · answer #2 · answered by mrvid2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don' t regret showing an interest in someone otherwise how else are they going to know. If he wasn't at all interested he might have said a firm no to your question which he didn't. So maybe he really doesn't know right now. You may have surprised him totally with the question.
2007-01-15 21:38:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to the club....everyone has felt this at one time. I was once told, when I felt the SAME way, that no ONE thing undoes a relationship....in other words, the thing I said to him last night or last week,etc. is not the reason for things coming undone....it usually takes much more than a simple conversation. He may not be ready for a relationship right now. Here is my advise......
step back from all of this. Live your life.....take care of yourself...eat healthy,excerise, get involved in things that are fun....see how things unfold with him...do not try to contact him.
Good luck.
2007-01-15 21:40:17 · answer #4 · answered by I am Sunshine 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No there isnt if he wants to act all weird he has issues maybe something happened to him during break but no matter u should try to forget about him. I say if hes not nice he doesnt deserve you
2007-01-15 21:37:23 · answer #5 · answered by filipino_chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you have to do is back away and don't approach him. If he is interested he will come around and if he doesnt then he was only playing mind games with you. Just act like he isn't even on your mind.
2007-01-15 21:38:04 · answer #6 · answered by cHiKiBaBe 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There was nothing wrong with what you said.
He has had other things or someone else on his mind.
Talk to him and ask him straight forward what the problem is.
Good Luck
2007-01-15 21:37:42 · answer #7 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well see this is a fragile question.most boys are really close to their friends become a friend.then bulid from there dont get down if he says no it is a anserw not a life or death questions he says no you die of embrassment or he says yes and you hook up and he lkes and you all do good or you hook up and he thinks it is a mistakes!
2007-01-15 21:41:00 · answer #8 · answered by x3x_katie_luvs_you_x3x 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen girl the same thing happen to me and no matter what you do or say he still goin act like that with you because either he don't like you or it's another girl so i say leave it a long and he'll be running after you, you'll yes once he see what he lost
2007-01-15 21:40:24 · answer #9 · answered by babygirlnikkibuttercup 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hang in there. Keep smiling and someone great will come around. This guy sounds like he is either a jerk or really dull.
2007-01-15 21:37:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋