hes a really great guy he makes me laugh and pampers me but im not sure if im ready to be married
2007-01-15 13:26:04 · 25 answers · asked by ilana m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If your not ready then tell him.
If you think you might me say yes but, you want a longer engagement.
Good Luck
2007-01-15 13:31:00 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is such a great guy, tell him the truth. Don't you think he deserves to know how you feel. You have to be honest and let him know you aren't ready. It is better to tell him now then doing it for all the wrong reasons and regretting it after.....besides all the money it would cost.
Do not rush into something when there is doubt in your mind.
The decision to marry is one which you make when you are truly certain that the time is right. as well as the partner.
Do not be pressured by anything said to go through with it. You can say no and you must be strong in your convictions.
Take your time, this is a decision about your future...
2007-01-15 13:33:28 · answer #2 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He does sound like a great guy and I know you don't want to lose him, you might be afraid by telling him you are not ready or saying no that you will drive him away. Just know that you have to be ready to make this great a commitment... that's the only way it'll work. So let him know it's not about him... let him know how great he is!
2007-01-15 13:31:30 · answer #3 · answered by fullofsugaw 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never marry if you have any doubt about it, including not being ready for marriage. You are in a wonderful position in this relationship. Tell him how much you are attracted to him and ask him for time to grow in the relationship. He should not object to that. If he does then consider moving on.
2007-01-15 13:30:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
then tell him the truth, that is the best way to handle it.
If you love him tell him you do but that you are not quite ready to be married. If you want a long engagement do that, if you don't want to be ingaged either at this point it is best to be honest about it.
Things will be fine, he would rather you tell the truth than not and have things go wrong later.
Good Luck
2007-01-15 13:31:04 · answer #5 · answered by ladyw0llf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him how you feel, and if he really loves you he would understand although it might hurt. Marriage is not some thing you feel rushed into. It should be one of the best day of your life. You could give him a promise ring or something that says, "I want to marry you someday, just not this soon."
2007-01-15 13:33:06 · answer #6 · answered by Tee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about what you are feeling. Maybe yall can just give it time without totally call of the engagement to see if yall can make sure this is what yall both want. There is no hurry - don't want to rush anything and end up divorced shortly after marriage. Wish you the best!
2007-01-15 13:31:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-20 06:40:19 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to ask yourself "Do I want to be with him the rest of my life?" If you think your not ready to get married then don't. If I were you I would keep dating him and hold off on the marriage.
2007-01-15 13:34:28 · answer #9 · answered by sweetlilangel352007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you didn't say yes yet did you? well if you did its ok, tell him that you still want to be with him but you need more time. tell him to give you like a year. if he feels hurt or misunderstanding ask him if he would likes the feeling of being pushed into a big decision. if he still doesnt get it then theres just tell him your not ready and leave it at that.
2007-01-15 13:30:43 · answer #10 · answered by southca49er 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋