My mind is mixed up with thoughts. Part of me is obessing on how I regret losing my virginity to someone I barely knew. Theres another part leaning into thinking of my ex & I how I wanted to lose it to him & starting to want him back a little. I swore to God for years I was waiting until my honeymoon to lose my virginity. He got me horny when we were makingout. When I dated my ex I imagined us losing it together. I hear this other is blabbing. I THOUGHT he was a good guy. Also, a new guy friend I made kind of likes me & I don't feel like that. If I hang around him I rather like it to be with the friend I met him through. Ive already did a little just us. Im so confused. Is there anything I can do? All this at once.I'm close friends with my ex's sister & were kinda friends. Hes popping around in my head with a wonder. I dont want to hurt this guy friend, but I wannabe just pals. Is there anything I can do? My ex? My pal? This other I lost it to? Forgeting it? Just be single again?
2007-01-15 13:24:07 · 4 answers · asked by Artsy 1 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are very confused and need some time away from guys to sort out your feelings.
You need to understand why you let yourself get into a situation where you lost your virginity when you really weren't ready.
You need to figure out why you are still fantasizing about your ex-boyfriend.
You need to be honest with this latest guy in the picture and tell him you really don't feel the same way he does.
I am looking over some of these other questions you are asking...
Are you really 20 years old? You need to get your head on straight. Is there anyone a little older than you that you can confide in and talk to? These questions you are asking deserve some serious answer by someone who knows you -- not the musings of some stranger with internet access.
It is admirable that you wanted to wait to have sex until you were married. Don't let one mistake affect your self-image. You are an incredible woman! Remember that.
You don't need a guy to have an identity. Go find yourself first. Figure out what you really want in a man. Then go looking for him.
That's about the best advice I can give without knowing all the nitty-gritty details of your life.
May God bless you and watch over you. You are in my prayers.
2007-01-15 13:28:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is all part of growing up...the guy i lost my virginity to was a "loser" but i was horny. I dated several nut jobs before i met my now husband...just forget it all like the first answer said...do what you feel like doing and don't stress too much
2007-01-15 21:33:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start all over and figure out who you really want to be with.
2007-01-15 21:32:20 · answer #3 · answered by dead_end_lies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget all about it. Start again.... and wait this time.
2007-01-15 21:28:27 · answer #4 · answered by adorablecutiepie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋