I don't know why but whenever I am with my cat I feel really happy.
I act really stupid and say stupid things and hug and kiss my kitten and kiss him on the head and the nose and the lips.
Even though I am a guy I think there is something wrong with me?
2007-01-15 13:15:45 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pets ➔ Cats
Hi there...this only means you have a soft spot and are a very loving, kind person who enjoys the pleasure of your kitty's company.
2007-01-15 13:19:34 · answer #1 · answered by ♪ Seattle ♫ 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I don't think you are weird or gay. I totally understand how you feel. I assume just from what you have said that you are probably single and have no children...probably have very little personal human interaction. You have formed a very close bond with your cat because he loves you unconditionally and seems to be there when everyone else fails you. I was single with no children for a long time..I had a cat named Sam who I had a very close relationship with...very similar to what you are saying. He was my baby...my child....my best friend. He understood what I needed and when I needed it. He even understood me better than my mom who had been my best friend for years. I lost my Sammy a little over 7 years ago to feline diabetes but there is not a day that goes by that I don't remember the wonderful times we spent together. Just enjoy the time you have with your pawed friend and know that you are not as weird as you think. Just remember that most people won't understand so you might want to "censor" your affection toward him when others are present.
2007-01-15 13:42:35 · answer #2 · answered by hotrodgirl1973 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just sound like a sensitive, loving guy that is not afraid to let others know his true feelings. I wish more guys out there were like you, otherwise I probally wouldn't be single right now! ;) I have had guy-friends over that will act "tough" but they still pay more attention to my cats than me! They end up picking up one of their toys and they play with them endlessly! I don't mind at all,because I think it is cute. A guy has to like cats to have a chance with me!
Keep loving that kitten of yours, and he is lucky to have a caring "dad" to take such good care of him!
I have several guy friends that are cat lovers, and many prefer cats to dogs. You aren't as much of a minority as you might think! Also, as someone else said, look how some guys show affection for their dogs...
2007-01-15 17:39:51 · answer #3 · answered by Aspasia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have 4 cats. I may be a woman but loving cats is definately not gay. I used to work as a vet nurse in a cat only clinic and the two main vets were male. They are happily married and definately not gay. So, answer is, no not gay.
2007-01-15 13:22:33 · answer #4 · answered by angelbearcottage 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I cant stand Cats, but just because a man likes cats doesnt make him gay. I know men that treat their dogs the same u do as their cats, Hold up, but those guys are gay. N/M
2007-01-15 13:24:02 · answer #5 · answered by myothernewname 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any lover of cats know that you can get real goofy over your kitty. No you are not gay and your are not weird. Cats or any animal that you love, that makes you feel happy and relaxed, is a good thing. Don't worry about it.
2007-01-15 13:25:47 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I do the same with my kitty. He's been with me for 8 yrs. and loves me no matter what. He doesn't care how much money I have, what I'm wearing or what kind of car I drive,etc. He is always my friend, he listens when I need to talk,and snuggles with me at night with comforting purrs. As long as kitty is not your lover, then you are not gay or weird. :)
2007-01-15 13:27:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you're gay, just a very sensitive, cat-loving guy. It's cool, dude, I know lots of tough people who just melt when they see cute things. Unless you feel an attraction to boys, and find yourself in no way whatsoever attracted to girls, I don't think you're gay.
2007-01-15 13:24:42 · answer #8 · answered by Barely_There 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Aww, your not gay, you just love your kitty. I do admit, it's a little odd to be kissing him on the lips, but heck, people french kiss their dogs nowadays. Be sure to take care of your kitty!
2007-01-15 13:20:34 · answer #9 · answered by nichellecomicbookgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am happily married, and both my husband and I are sometimes puzzled by the inordinate joy we get from our cat. There's something about the way he likes to head butt us, and there are few things as awesome as kissing his forehead and having him miaow back. Cats are awesome, and yours is lucky to have you.
2007-01-15 13:53:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You might be gay or weird, but that would have nothing to do with your cat. I do hope, though, that you have human relationships as well.
2007-01-15 13:23:33 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋