Hello I am ready to lose My virginity and my boyfriend tried it with me but it hurt so bad I had to stop I heard about lubricants do they really work and is there anything that can help the pain
2007-01-15 13:11:25 · 13 answers · asked by Dori W 1 in Health ➔ General Health Care ➔ Pain & Pain Management
sleep with a guy with a small penis.
Yes, lubricants will help. Also lots of foreplay. Use toys/fingers before you get to that point while you're on your own to get used to the feeling. It won't always hurt, I promise.
2007-01-15 17:28:19 · answer #1 · answered by Morning Glory 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, before I lost my virginity, my ob/gyn told me to try using tampons instead of pads to sort of "prep the area!" I did it, but unfortunately, it didn't help at all. The pain was pretty bad. I'm not saying this to scare you; it really was bad. On the positive side, I had a very small cervix and I had more pain than most women. Also, some women expericne very little or no pain. As with everything else, it just depends on your body. If it's going to happen, it'll happen. So no sense worrying yourself beforehand. Deal with it when it happens b/c there's nothing you can do about it. Another good news: It lasts maybe 30 seconds or so. And most of the female population goes through it and lives to tell about it. So it's really not traumatizing. Childbirth, on the otherhand.....!!!
2007-01-15 13:21:59 · answer #2 · answered by girlie 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I don't think u can't lose it without going through pain. When I lost my virginity it wasn't as painful as I expected but it still was painful in a way
2016-05-24 19:23:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey i lost mine when i was at a young age . I'm not sure how old you are but it depends on your body if it will hurt more or less. Take it slow and if you can't handle the pain ask your boyfriend to stop until ur ready
2007-01-15 16:41:15 · answer #4 · answered by cherrygrlie15 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it real slow and and if it hurts stop. There are other ways to get off without penetration, and if your bf loves u, he will respect that you may need to take some time.
Ask him to be really gentle with you, and only do it if you feel safe and trust him.
hope this helps.
2007-01-15 13:20:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Honey pain is good. Have a great time and get some lube.
2007-01-15 13:19:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lubricants work, but honestly, if you want no pain, become a boy. they get all the pleasure until you're loosened up enuf.
2007-01-15 13:19:48 · answer #7 · answered by schneb 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Actually if you're really turned on and wet it shouldn't hurt...have him play with you or you play with you, so you're not so tense. Relax..having sex isn't torture, unless you don't like the guy, then it's rape if he makes you do it....
2007-01-15 13:16:45 · answer #8 · answered by Chrys 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Booze. And hold onto your chastity as long as humanly possible.
2007-01-15 13:48:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
That would be impossible.. It will hurt
2007-01-15 17:09:40 · answer #10 · answered by Mommadog 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋