do you believe that a teenager can be in love...or do you think its just crushes?...im not sure..i know this girl who is only 14 but is positive that she is in love with this guy who is also 14...they act like they are in love and they talk about eachother like they love one another but how can they be sure...they havent experienced enough
2007-01-15 13:05:44 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this couple has been dating for 1 year now
2007-01-15 13:18:34 · update #1
i don't really think that it's love... at all... because there are a bunch of thing that you kinda have to experiment beafore "being in love" (i'm not talking about dirty stuff.... dont' think that) and your reach that level of love until you experiment that... for instance... you have to get to know what is it like to be jealous... to be mad and to tolerate him/her... to accept being there for him/her all the time... i don't know.... there are many things that make love real love... like... listening to a song and become melancholic.... this kids (i hope not) but will meet some other people when they are like 18 or so and will think different too... so they would probably break up.... or they are going to probably get married someday and some other day they will get bored of sharing with the same person for all those years.... or they willl probably be together for the rest or their lives... who knows?... but it's mostlikely to change with time... real love doesn't...
2007-01-15 13:18:44 · answer #1 · answered by Roberto Martínez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are most definitely in love...to the degree that they can understand love. At 14, the understanding and maturity of love is virtually non-existent and they will move on. The tears and heartbreak will feel just as real, etc. They need to understand that they are young and going through alot of life changes right now. Enjoy the 'sunshine, lollipops and rainbows' but don't move beyond that to the things that will hurt them if they venture to far too soon.
2007-01-15 21:16:45 · answer #2 · answered by lavenderbluememories 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Young love is the realest type of love because it is also the purest. You havent' been hurt before, so you just let all your apprehensions && fears go && let love take you. Love requires no experience.
Sometimes though, it is just emotions getting ahold of you. I thought I was in love with a boy, but it turned out I was just attached. From the way you talk about the girl, I'm 90% positive they're in love.
2007-01-15 21:11:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that they could be in love but just to make sure they shouldn't do anything for several years and see where there relationship goes. if when they are seniors and are going off to collage and they still say they love each other then you know it is true love. but right now it is hard to tell about the long run if they truly love each other or it is just puppy love.
2007-01-15 21:11:30 · answer #4 · answered by kddg2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 14 it's what we use to call Puppy Love. They think they are in love now but in a few weeks or months, they will be in love with someone else.
2007-01-15 21:09:45 · answer #5 · answered by Faith 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I belive that there are different levels of love. Meaning, They may very well love each other. But the chances of them actually staying together forever are very slim. See, as we grow as people and find out who we are, with every person that we love, we love them a different way. And with every person that we love we find out a little bit more what love means to us, and what we truly think love is. So, she may be in love with him now, but as she grows to find who she is she may discover that what she has with him isnt love.
2007-01-15 21:11:12 · answer #6 · answered by Candace T 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Young Puppies that haven't left the nest yet and fall in love....hm this sound s too much familiar.
14 going on 21...this is as best as it gets on young love and thats it.
You can't help but let the fire sizzle out.
2007-01-15 21:10:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
it can happen at ANY age! well, not at 10 years old or anything. but 14 isn't childish
2007-01-15 21:10:36 · answer #8 · answered by wildgrace 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They are too young for love. It's just adorable infatuation. Awww.
Don't you just want to squeeze their cheeks?!?! LOL.
ADD. DETAILS:
You're talking about yourself now, aren't ya?
2007-01-15 21:08:25 · answer #9 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
They will brake up before summer, trush me.
2007-01-15 21:08:54 · answer #10 · answered by lex83201 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋