There is this woman that I really like who works at the bank that I go to. I truly think that she is really pretty with a beautiful smile. I noticed that she isnt married or enagaged bc there was no ring on her finger at all. I know banktellers are supposed to be nice to all customers. She sometimes works as a teller or at the drive thru window. How can i find out if she is single? and what is the best way of getting her to notice me? Should i write her a note? bc the other teller could be listening to my convo with her if no one is there. What is the best thing thing i should do or how should i ask her out? thanks again.
2007-01-15 13:03:56 · 4 answers · asked by spurs257 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
next time your in there say if your not busy later on would you like to have lunch with me some time.. a lunch date is less threatening then a dinner date
2007-01-15 13:45:21 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pay her a compliment. Tell her she has the most beautiful eyes or hair whatever you love most about her. She will notice you. So, make one trip to the bank and give her the compliment and then the very next day go back and tell her once again that you just love her hair or eyes and then just ask her if you could buy her a cup of coffee when she gets off work. It doesn't matter if someone else hears you.
2007-01-15 15:00:00 · answer #2 · answered by sunny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man I got the same problem. Theres this really hot babe that works at the auto parts store that i have asked out at least 10 times. She kept telling me no and I spent at least $200.00 dollars in there just buying junk for my truck so I could see her. Finally the guys that work there threw me out and told me not to come back so I waited in the parking lot one afternoon cause I thought I could wear her down with my charm. Dang she was mad and called the cops and she said she will get a restraining order if I come back. I really thought she was playing hard to get but I learned the hard way she actually hated my guts I guess. Now I just stick to dating women I meet in bars. At least I know they are there so studs like me will ask them out (ha!). 3 and one half divorces later should tell me something though. So dont listen to any advice I give except be careful what kind of note you pass to a lady that works in a bank! Sometimes I wonder if anyone has troubles like me?
2007-01-15 14:03:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would deal with her face to face - and either slip her a note with your name, # and invitation for drinks on it - or casually ask her quietly when no one can overhear.
2007-01-15 14:03:22 · answer #4 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋