my parents wont let me date , any help?

Question

i wanted to date my parents say you cant date
till your 30 . help if i dont date how am going to
know whos loves me or whos fake . PLEASE HELP!

Answer 1

Nice try, but I don't believe for one second that ANY parents have set the dating age at 30.

Answer 2

Well, depends whether you have somebody to date in mind.
If there is someone who you have deep affection for, pursue them.
Parents want you to have the same rules THEY had, or what was good for them. Perhaps you mee the love of your life when you are 15, instead of thirty, you dont want to miss it!
Just because they were told not to date until they were thirty, thats thier problem.
Dont let your parents think they have experiance in this feild. They will tell you that "Im older, I've had experience" Unless they had been dating 20 people, and thought each of them was the love of thier life, they dont have experience.
I hope you wont say "this guy doesnt understand what it's like to have parents" Because that's a lie. Im 11.
Also, times have changed, I'm the only one in my class without a boyfriend/girlfriend. Im only in sixth grade! However, I have different issues with my parents. In my house there is no freedom of religon/opinion

Answer 3

i think you should be able to date from 16 years , have sex no sonner than 18 or later, get married and have children in your 20's because children are most healthy when the mom is pretty young too............

SOOOOOOO 30 is idiotic........ wastes of quality time with a potential soul mate.....

if you are less than 15 years old, i wouldn't suggest you to date yet.....

otherwise your parents are unreasonable.

You could date secretly, if you are absolutly sure that the people and guy you would hang out with is safe to be around with and wont get you into trouble, and wont hurts you....... Becuase basicly the reason why they say you can't date until 30 is because they don't want you to get hurt, so be causious about not causing pain for yourself and for them....... Technically you can do whatever you want when you turn 18, they can't stop you from dating because you are an adult.... and it's okay

Answer 4

Holy crap 30??? Damn the absolute limit your parents should have on this should be at most 18 years. Have a long talk with your parents about this? Try to find some statistic of people who date and those who don't online and convince your parents? My god 30?

Answer 5

I don't know how old you are but most parents, like myself, have kids wait till they are 16 to date - I'm not talking about going with a "friend" to the occasional movie or party but more serious dating...trust me ...parents were teens once too and well...we know things! I smiled when I read you parents wont let you date till you are 30 - jokingly, I told my daughter she would have to wait till she was 35...It's not that parents don't want their kids to date - they just don't want them hurt or taken advantage of....If you are around 16 and have someone that has asked you out, talk to your folks calmly...maybe suggest having your friend come to your place...to meet them...I know, sound corny but it might show your folks you are responsible...Good luck...and don't stress it.

Answer 6

I doubt your parents really mean 30? It's just a figure of speech, I've used it 100s of times. I have 3 daughters, and they are not allowed to date until they are 18. They can go out with groups, like the church youth group, but that's it.

I do this because I love them so much, I only want what's best for them and it's my job to protect them until they are old enough to make educated decisions.

listen to you parents and talk openly and honest with them, respectfully.

Answer 7

They are just being silly.

Your parents are trying to say that right now you don't need to be dating. It's a distraction from your homework.

My advice because I also had parents like that?

Become friends with a guy and invite him over on Saturday nights to watch movies.

Don't use the "if I don't know I'll never know who's fake and who loves me!" argument when talking to your parents. You WILL date when you get to college. Trust me on that.

Answer 8

well Rebeca just do what a very close friend of min did bring the guy home that you like to meet your parents and if they like him then maybe they will start letting you date by the way how old r u your age may be why they wont let u but i thank that's so dumb age should not matter but if your in high school you should already be dating GOOD LUCK:)

Answer 9

Well, cant tell ya you should date because you didnt say an age. But if you are under 17 or responsable 16 i think you should listen to your parents, you will find love, beleive me. Dont be so eager to jump into the world, its a nasty place.

Answer 10

Okay first of all your parents want to protect you from harm the harm that these no good boys are putting females through. Yet they have to let you learn from your own mistakes. I am 16 and my parents still do not like me to date, but they realize i'm getting older and wiser. trust me parents knows best but it depends on your age i personally think that if you are over 13 you should atleast be able to talk. and the best way to get your parents to see through this is to talk to them one on one and prove to them you are not a baby you first have to show them you can take on small responsabilities then step up occasionally.