how can i tell my bf he is pushing me to hard ps all we do is kiss and we are 14
2007-01-15 12:51:38 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Toddler & Preschooler
You mean he wants to go further with you? Tell him once no. If he doesnt listen then leave him. At 14 you are not physically or emmotionally ready for sex or the consequences. Or he is actually pushing you? Leave him now. These are not the kind of relationships you need hun. Take care.
2007-01-15 12:56:05 · answer #1 · answered by michaellandonsmommy 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just sit him down and tell him how u feel. Tell him that you want 2 start taking things a little slower. If he still do the same thing then I suggest that you no longer be with him. If he cant wait until you're ready to do things then that means you should leave him.
2007-01-15 20:57:36 · answer #2 · answered by 2Cute09 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, remember that you are the only one who can decide when,where, why and with who you're going to do things. A boy who really care about you doesn't put any preassure on you. You should have a little more trust in your parents and talk to them openly. No matter their first reaction they will understand you and stand for you at every time you need them.
2007-01-19 10:50:22 · answer #3 · answered by tonyseth 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him. Something like "Hey you are pushing me too hard" should get the conversation rolling. Then tell him what is on your mind. If he doesn't accept it, dump him, he's not worth your time anyways. If he cares about you, he will agree and understand and not push you anymore.
2007-01-15 20:56:49 · answer #4 · answered by makin_the_same_mistakes 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him "no!" If he gives you a hard time or starts to give you a bunch of lines then obviously he doesn't respect the way you feel and you should find a new boyfriend.
2007-01-15 21:46:51 · answer #5 · answered by joye6877 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him straight up and if he can't respect your decision than maybe you shouldn't be together. If you really care about someone you can talk to them about anything and if they really care about you they will listen and respect you and the decisions you make for your own body.
2007-01-15 20:57:49 · answer #6 · answered by jmj1096 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he cant take no for an answer leave him your only 14 there are other boys out there
2007-01-15 21:15:02 · answer #7 · answered by <3 mykiddos,mylife <3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUST TELL HIM NO THAT YOU ARE NOT READY AND YOU DON'T LIKE TO BE PUSHED. IF HE CARES HE WILL STOP PUSHING YOU. STICK TO , IF YOU DON'T WANT TO DO IT, THEN DON'T . NO ONE CAN MAKE YOU DO SOMETHING THAT YOU DON'T WANT TO DO.
2007-01-15 21:58:58 · answer #8 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't feel comfortable doing it then DON'T DO IT.
If he cared about you he wouldn't be pushing you. I think all he is thinking about is himself and his little penis.
2007-01-15 21:57:53 · answer #9 · answered by Kylie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie you just tell him. if he breaks up with you then you do not need him anyway
2007-01-15 21:33:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋