me and this guy had sex together for the first time. he was not a virgin, but i was, and he knew before we had sex that i was a virgin. however, the first time we had sex together, he didn't talk much at all, but the second time he talked a lot more, and was physically helpful. he acted like the second time was my first time, and he constantly asked me if i was alright, and told me to tell him when to stop and when it hurts.
what does this mean?
2007-01-15 12:49:34 · 13 answers · asked by lucy aaaaa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that the first time he was way nervous and found it hard to talk. the second time he was a little more comfortable talking to you and making sure you were ok. he obviously cared about how you felt. thats a good thing.
oh, just thinking about my first time. he was so sweet and caring. what the hell happened?
2007-01-15 12:54:13 · answer #1 · answered by DEVIL IN A BLUE DRESS 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he was just freaking out the first time, or was concentrating on not 'finishing' too soon or something. He was probably way more relaxed the second time because the pressure was off.
2007-01-15 20:53:41 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably was a virgin himself the first time and didnt want to admit it so by the second time maybe he felt like he had some experience and felt he could coach u through it more...who knows ask him
2007-01-15 20:54:52 · answer #3 · answered by JAY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might've just been too into the moment the first time. Also, it might've been too overwhelming for him to have been talking so much the first time. You're lucky you found someone who's that kind during sex!
2007-01-15 20:54:10 · answer #4 · answered by halie_blue 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe hes had experiences where the first time was a lot of pain for the women he is just being polite
2007-01-15 20:54:29 · answer #5 · answered by oldmanarnie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It means that he cares. He wants to make sure you enjoy sex as much as he does.
2007-01-15 20:52:58 · answer #6 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he probabbly just forgot to the 1st time and felt like an idiot for not being helpful and then tried to mak eit up to u the 2nd time.
2007-01-15 20:53:40 · answer #7 · answered by gina_d 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
the guy is looking out for you, sounds caring and decent.
2007-01-15 20:54:18 · answer #8 · answered by steven m 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes concerned
2007-01-15 20:53:18 · answer #9 · answered by Spidy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe he was on drugs the first time.
2007-01-15 20:52:35 · answer #10 · answered by untuhchabul 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋