She has this guy and he is a preppy boy that is a jerk to people. I like the girl but she is kind of preppy too but that doesn't matter to me. I want to win her over but I'm not sure how to do it. I really like her a lot and I hate to see her with a guy like this.
2007-01-15 12:48:25 · 14 answers · asked by Joel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok here's the deal people. She is a lot better than this guy and I don't think she's happy with him. So stop assuming so. Thanx for the feedback.
2007-01-15 12:58:01 · update #1
Be careful about getting involved like this. The girl has to make up her mind to leave this guy. If you make her feel pressured, or she leaves him before she is ready, she might get together with you and start wondering "What if things had have worked out" with the ex.
Not good to chase people in relationships- at least one person usually gets hurt. He probably is a jerk, but maybe he isn't that much of a jerk to her, maybe he loves her. A lot of your dislike for him probably comes from jealousy. In all, it doesn't seem fair to hold a grudge against a guy who's girlfriend you are thinking of stealing ;-)
Let her know you like her, that you're a good guy and treat her with respect. If she wants to stick with the jerk, then she's making her decision clear. Maybe she'll realise what she's missing with you. Whatever happens, it has to be her decision.
Hope this can be resolved without anyone getting hurt.
2007-01-15 12:57:56 · answer #1 · answered by midsojo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ther's not much that you could do to win a girl over from a pretty boy the fact their objective is to fill every womans dreams and bring even their wildest fantasies to life , but as a female you could try to get to know her, find out what she like, find out every thing about her find her weakness and manipulate her. Use it against her in a respectable way. A lil bad boy mixed with a little charming usually sweeps a girl off her feet.
2007-01-15 20:58:37 · answer #2 · answered by Angelia W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say don't chase after her. Be a nice guy that she can talk to, lend an ear to. Let her jerk of a boyfriend screw things up (which he probably will) and be there for her when he does. Although, I will caution you to being the "rebound guy". I heard those things don't work out very often, and if they do, they don't work out as expected. Though, one never knows.
2007-01-15 21:11:37 · answer #3 · answered by J T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about it man, what if you have a great relationship with the woman of your dreams one day and some guy dislikes you. So, this guy decides to sweep your lady off of her feet. Isn't that what you are planning on doing right now? Terrible man, that is despicable
2007-01-15 20:56:02 · answer #4 · answered by black belt fisch 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you know i went through the same situation with two of my previous boyfriends....i was dating one guy and the other one had a "huge" crush on me...eventually the crusher won over. He was so sweet and treated me so good. Like i was the most beautiful girl in the world and he only had eyes for me...let her know you like her through a mutual friend but don't be pushy...then just be nice to her...sweet...that's all i can tell ya
2007-01-15 20:54:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to do that if she is happy let her be, PLEASE. Guys are selfish there are more girls out there. Who knows wait and see what happens. You sound like a home wrecker.
2007-01-15 20:54:43 · answer #6 · answered by MoMo 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk to her see how she acts around u and how the boyfriend acts if she talks to u again well she likes u and if she dosen't keeping trying but DON'T annoy her that happened to me many times before it's a disater
2007-01-15 20:53:55 · answer #7 · answered by JJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
convince her through your own actions that you are a person of higher morals and if she still turns you down then she doesnt know what kind of realtionship she wants and you would get mind ****** by starting one with her
2007-01-15 20:53:30 · answer #8 · answered by Steve C 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wait until she is available again. Good luck!
2007-01-15 20:52:53 · answer #9 · answered by J&A 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dude, home wrecker- there are more fishes in the sea. if she's happy with the one she's with- let her be and stop wasting yours and her time.
2007-01-15 20:52:34 · answer #10 · answered by roxylee11782 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋