hey! i'm first year of uni..n after the new year, most of my friends are no longer single!! i am single, n my guy friendz n girl friendz were mostly single so it was ok ..but now..it's horrible cuz they r all in this new n awsome relationships...n i feel soo ugly n unwanted n i feel i will remain single for ever n it's hard to watch them...help me! wat should i do!
2007-01-15 12:48:24 · 12 answers · asked by kitXcat 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
will go out there and find you guy and a relationship.
2007-01-15 12:52:23 · answer #1 · answered by OB the Wolf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I haven't got a clue, but I feel sure you will survive if you just buckle down and remember why you are there in the first place.
My goodness your not going to attract anything with a long sad face. Who would want to spend some time listening to your depressing problem. You need to count your blessings. Put on a smile, it's contagious.
When my daughter put her interest in projects rather then what was going on with her peers, she said "Mother it was amazing, guys started coming out of the woodwork. She is happily married and retired from United Air Lines today. She has seen the world & didn't remain single and so it will be with you. Just relax & put your focus on education.
2007-01-15 21:22:02 · answer #2 · answered by Jill ❤'s U.S.A 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this from experience. All but 2 of those "wonderful relationships" are going to break up by the end of the semester. Keep being social and meeting new people, THAT is what's important! For example, if you go to a store, do you only look at one rack of clothes and pick the best-looking out of that? I think not!
You're still spreading your wings, just give it time.
2007-01-15 20:56:17 · answer #3 · answered by John C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you have had a couple of bad months. Just take it easy for now. When you find some one it will be worth the wait. What university do you go to? They should have alot of activities for single or etc.. to do.
2007-01-17 23:30:20 · answer #4 · answered by coolzz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give yourself a giant hug. You're not ugly. You're not unwanted! You haven't met someone worthy of you yet. Keep your chin up. If you're too busy looking at your feet feeling sorry or sad, you won't see the hot guys walking by <3
2007-01-15 20:52:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
am in the exact situation. All my best friends are in relationships with my other best friends. And my girlfriend just recently broke up with me so i feel a little insecure and unwanted. email me if you want a casual listener, i dont mind listening.
2007-01-15 20:55:52 · answer #6 · answered by Pablo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should relax. The transition from "I have single friends" to "I have married friends" is tough. All your friends want to do different stuff. Eventually you'll find someone and you can all do couple stuff.
2007-01-15 20:53:17 · answer #7 · answered by Dognose0 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
two words........cam down. You might not be ready for a relationship, and if you force yourself into a relationship, you will not have a fun time. Just calm yourself down.
2007-01-15 20:53:38 · answer #8 · answered by XD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may want to read this article http://www.healthadel.com/articles/9/1/Depression-Treatments/Page1.html i found will be useful also has info on different treatments.
2007-01-16 17:49:43 · answer #9 · answered by gooner1212 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just wait! the rite guy will come along before u even no it!
2007-01-15 20:53:31 · answer #10 · answered by Boi Crazie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋