I lied about what age to a guy i really like what do i do?

Question

im a sophomore in highschool. and i ususally never ahngout with ppl my own age. im mature for my age i guess you can say. and well i hangout with ppl a few years older then me. and well one day i met this guy who i find out is a sophomore in college. i told him i was a senior in highschool and 17 but i was 15 . soon to be 16 in a few months. hes 19. but i lied. the more we talk to him the more i like him. i want to tell him, but i really liek him and dont wnat him to hate me or anything or not like me the same all because of my age. age is just a number but i dont know if i should wait until were more serious or tell him now. HELLLPPP!!! i dont want to lose him at all. =[

Answer 1

You need to tell him, you could get him in a lot of trouble because that's illegal for a 19 year old to have relations with a 15 year old. If you really like him you should tell him before it gets any further and he goes to jail.

Answer 2

This is not funny nor just a silly little lie not now a days!

You need to tell him you are 15 and don't want to be involved with him. He is of legal age and it is a felony for him to be involved (sexually) with a minor and can cause him a lot of trouble otherwise.
So march yourself out there and tell the truth and stop trying to say you don't like kids your own age. This is a sign of how immature you still are otherwise you would have realized what you were doing.
A 19 year old does not need nor should he have any interest in a 15 year old whether or not you think you are mature for your age.

Answer 3

if he's 19 and you're 16 that could be a problem especially for him cause of the whole statutory rape thing. You need to tell him.
you're still very young and most guys around that age want someone around their age or older. Sorry sweetheart.

Answer 4

I'm always amased by "mature" people. Second time I've written this tonight, but genuinely mature people don't start the discussion telling us how mature they are. Secondly... how does hanging out with morons who hang out with people younger than them make you mature? And lastly... where does lying fit into maturity... everyone else is telling you to come clean... I'm telling you that and take it easy and give people your own age a shot, if any of them will hang out with your too cool ***.

Answer 5

well that is a big deal cause you are under age. He could get in trouble for that. But you do need to tell him the truth if you really like him.

Answer 6

as a guy thats not nice. but if you like him that much because i once was in that situation you should tell him the truth about everything and explain to him that you really do like a lot and tell him the truth about why you lied in the beginig. that should work but you have to be open and honest about everything from here on out

Answer 7

you already are in a bad place. you tell him you lied he'll be pissed but at least you know it's coming. you wait and start a relationship then he finds out he is even more pissed but b/c you have a relationship he might still want to be with you. but above all if your sleeping with him you have to tell him let him decide if he is willing to break the law or not.

Answer 8

You should tell him how old you are. I don't know why everyone automatically assumes that you're sleeping with him especially since you say that things aren't serious with him yet. If you don't have sex with him then everything is nice and legal.

Answer 9

tell him now before it goes any further...the longer you wait the worse it will be when you do tell him...and for all you know he won't even care anyway...i mean after all it's only two years...or a year and a few months

Answer 10

Tell him ASAP. The sooner the better before anything gets too far.