ok my friend BFF JUSS BROKE UP WITH HER BOYFRIEND. AND I LIKE HER BOYFRIEND. SO SHOULD I JUSS ASK HIM OUT OR SHOULD I ASK HER FIRST AND SHE BROKE WITH HIM LIKE 3 DAYS AGO!! SO WUT DO I DO?
2007-01-15 12:33:50 · 35 answers · asked by chrisbrown's gurl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-01-15 12:38:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
More my reaction, Well, it was a few years ago. We were in my room, laying our heads on the windowsill. I was a shy, self-proclaimed christian who until I had met her a few months ago was extremely against gays entirely (I was picked on for being a tom-boy my whole life, and thus was bitter) She had a week ago told me that she really liked someone, but would tell me who. I knew. I was scared. I didn't want to think about it. But as the week moved on, I thought. And thought. And started to realized my own feelings. And we sat for a while, our heads slowly getting closer together. Finally, with foreheads about touching, she told me. How could I hold back? How could I fight my own feelings? My mother was against it, as was my older sister. I was against it, wasn't I? No. It was then that I began my break from childhood forced values and rules. After a wonderful night of pure, beautiful conversation and acceptance, we began dating. April 9th, four years ago. (sigh, it was not to last, alas, as she moved away 6 months later, and eventually- after a year and a half- we accepted our distance and I refused to keep her from dating. I have not had any true relationships since, and do not want any. None could rival the bond we had shared.Such is life, but life goes on...) My mother still does not know.
2016-05-24 18:51:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This all depends on how long she has dated him.
If it is someone she recently met and dated, then decided ..he is not really for her, ..then I say ..you should have the opportunity to date him, as things could really work out. I would definitely ask her first.
The reason I came to this decision is ..I went out with a guy and hey, after the first few times, I realized he is not for me., SOoooo guess what? I told my girlfriend about him and.......they have hit it off in every area, It was like a match made in Heaven...Hey! I have a lot of single friends out there , and If some one does not work for me, I want to see one of my friends be happy ,,right?
2007-01-15 12:46:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To heck with her! As many times as my guy friends have done this to me, let me live my revenge through you. Tell me about how wierd it is trying to rebuild a broken freindship after she finds out. Tell me about how she feels betrayed and will never trust you again. I can't wait to hear it from someone else. Or just leave the boy alone for a while and give her a little time. Even though she broke it off, there's other issues to deal with. If you ever want her to hang out with you when she starts dating again, you better listen.
2007-01-15 12:39:56 · answer #4 · answered by jbsim75 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go there.
There's dozens of guys for the taking, but very few good friends. You'll ruin your friendship, your reputation and your self-respect. The guy will probably think you're a disloyal sleaze because you're chasing him after he dumped your friend. He'll treat you which no respect.
When a girl puts a guy before friendship it spells CHEAP to everyone involved.
2007-01-15 13:09:16 · answer #5 · answered by midsojo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Totally unkewl to jump on her ex like that. Talk to her first, but even if she says it's okay, be careful. I wouldn't date a friend's ex no matter how attracted to him I was. That's just betrayal of the friendship...not to mention ya end up knowing enough about him from them dating to already know where his faults are and that he's probably not worth it.
2007-01-15 12:37:21 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um...don't get so excited. Hold your horses! Your BFF would probably be pretty darn upset if you said to yourself, "Eh my god, I've liked him for like, ever and now he's free - I'm totally going to ask him!" Um...yeah, that's kind of a tad selfish. And also, what if her ex doesn't like you. Save yourself the loss of a friendship and embarrassment and find someone new.
2007-01-15 12:40:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do u like this boy or do u love this boy? how much do you really love your friend?.... friends are there when a man comes in your life and they'll still there when that man leaves, whats more important for you, a date with a cute guy a lifetime frienship? and in the case u decide to actually going out with him... i would ask my friend first, but this might break her heart
2007-01-15 12:41:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her if it'd be okay with you if you asked him out. If she broke up with him, it shouldn't be a problem. But make sure it's okay with her, because it's not worth losing a BFF over a guy. :) You go, girl!
2007-01-15 12:43:33 · answer #9 · answered by Cassie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would find someone else if you want her to continue being your friend. Dating a friend's ex is really not cool, especially when they've only been broken up for 3 days.
2007-01-15 12:42:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your best friend broke up with someone and you started dating that person, she wont be your bff for much longer.
2007-01-15 12:38:12 · answer #11 · answered by tombomber27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋