I have a bf that i have just met, and i like him alot but he travels alot, he has taken me with him, but not alot, and i was wondering will this realtionship work, I mean cause i miss him alot, but i dont want to lose him
2007-01-15 12:32:10 · 13 answers · asked by JoseAngel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Time will tell if your relationship works, but in general Long Distance situations don't do well. Too many add'l challenges, lonliness, and frustration in being apart.
2007-01-15 12:38:47 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for me they do. i have been in 2 long distance relationships (counting the one i am currently in) and the first lasted about 7 months. i have been with my current bf for about about 2 and a half months now and so far everything is fine. so as long as u trust each other and don't cheat on each other I'm pretty sure it will work fine.
2007-01-15 20:57:00 · answer #2 · answered by the idiot down the road 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, they usually do not work. Some people like to have a lot of time to themselves and do not date much. If you are both that type of person, then it might work out if you really like each other. If one of you happen to be the type that don't like to be alone a lot, then you will have problems.
2007-01-15 20:38:39 · answer #3 · answered by lincolnbuck 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had a similar situation with the woman who is now my wife.
If he truly cares for you, then whenever he returns, he will feel that he is coming HOME.
The next time he returns, do something special for him. Make him understand that you are what he is coming home to. If he really feels the same about you, then you will easily succeed.
2007-01-15 20:47:40 · answer #4 · answered by A dad & a teacher 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If thats a trend he will maintain then you just need to ask yourself if it is good for you and if you trust him. If you lack either the compulsion to enjoy such an arrangement or the trust to weather it then it will not work.
2007-01-15 20:36:08 · answer #5 · answered by jorluke 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course it can work but it takes money, time, and dedication to make it work. If you are willing to do what it takes to stay in contact whenever possible and truly believe he's worth it then do it.
2007-01-15 20:35:28 · answer #6 · answered by asturiasangel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can work, but you you have to stay connected even from a long distance.
2007-01-15 20:36:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have just started kinda seeing someone... he lives miles and miles away from me.. but i like him and im going give it a try.. i think you should too. cause you never know... anything could happen
Best of luck
2007-01-15 20:37:01 · answer #8 · answered by lollie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they will work fine all u need is hope and trust on each other ............my gf is 14 and i am 22 we are far from each other our relation is working
2007-01-15 20:35:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
takes a lot of commitment and trust. if u or him lack juz either one, it wont work.
2007-01-15 20:46:36 · answer #10 · answered by sulaji84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋