when we haven't even "slept together" yet and I dont plan to before we get married....we aren't engaged either so why would he want me to move in with him?
2007-01-15 12:31:07 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get some, and live off of you...
2007-01-15 12:35:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well...I just have one answer for your question. Don't move in with him. I don't know if you guys are planing to get married or not. But if you think this guy is the right one for you, then don't move in with him yet. He would have to understand your decision if he really loves you. You already answer yourself the question. Don't do something that you would regret later or that you don't feel sure about. So, think about it and keep up the good job on not sleeping together till you get married.
2007-01-15 12:47:00 · answer #2 · answered by allanstrada01 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If not for feelings then financial reasons.
How long have you and him been dating?
If he wants you to move in he wants to get a feeling of what your like living with 24/7 before making a proposal. Also, have either of you ever brought up sleeping together? There's a lot to think about.
2007-01-15 12:34:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
SO you will sleep with him. If you move in with him then you will look at it as well then we will get married so whats the harm in just having sex now. Or he could really love you and want to see you every morning when he wakes up. Or he wants to keep an eye on you 24/7.
2007-01-15 12:35:37 · answer #4 · answered by lex83201 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful. Sounds like you have alot of self respect. Control is the first thing that comes to mind. Putting yourself into that position suggests that your boyfriend is "concerned" that you are a rare lady and probably believes that with you moving in with him, he has some control of your decisions. Please think very hard of what would be the benefit to you, probably won't have a very big list. Look at how it would benefit him and make a sound decision on what is best for you. Speaking from past exp.
2007-01-15 12:41:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems a bit chancey to me. I suspect he thinks one or both of these: that if you live together, you'll change your mind about having sex before marriage (you won't be able to resist him!), and that you'll do all the housework so it's easier for him to move away from Mom.
You have good reason for hesitating. In your position, I don't think I'd go for it.
2007-01-15 12:38:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you can learn to live together under the same roof without having sex. I don't see why not, unless you are not sure about what you said up there. If you're mature enough and know your boundaries plus he knows that too, why not move in and see if you two can live together despite of your differences?
2007-01-15 12:35:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would make it easier for him to try sleeping together. Or could be that he really likes you and thinks you will get married eventually. Either way, he wants to spend more time with you.
2007-01-15 12:35:04 · answer #8 · answered by lincolnbuck 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to move in with your boyfriend than don't move in. He respects you enough to not force you into bed so he should respect your decision for not wanting to move in with him just yet. If he has a problem with it then that is something you both need to work out.
2007-01-15 12:35:44 · answer #9 · answered by karenlm215 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say but the best ANSWER you are going to get it by asking him these questions. None of us no YOUR BOY FRIEND as well as you. IF you are even considering moving in with him you need to make sure you can communicate openly.
2007-01-15 12:35:41 · answer #10 · answered by nealejess401 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This one is simple...no man likes to sleep in a bed alone. And he probably wants some body heat to keep him warmth at night.
2007-01-15 12:35:48 · answer #11 · answered by mercury y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋