okay my best friend from like ever....well two yrs ago in 7th grade
well its my Freshmon yr in HS and my best friends boyfriend broke up with her
And at first i thought he was hella ugly
and now I like him
He is sweet and funny
but i dont want to hurt my BFF
I thought that if we keep it a secret it would be fine
but we tell each other EVERYTHING
what should I do
HELP ME!!!
2007-01-15 12:29:03 · 5 answers · asked by Wanna_b_with_u...<3 ~KALA 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey, im a junior in high school and ive been through this so listn up mmkay.
your bet friend has no reason to be upset with you because your relationship with this guy does not, in any way, have an impact on her daily life ....i assume... plus your girl friend should be understanding with the thought that you arent her and your relationship just might suceed where theres failed and as your best friend she should respect that
2007-01-15 12:34:47 · answer #1 · answered by Steve C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm...depends what they broke up about...if there is a definate hate hate thing going on...then dont. there is genearally a rule that you dont go out with your friend's ex's. but then again...it depends how much you like this guy and how much of a friend this person is. i would say that if you really like him, ask him out and go with the flow, except dont keep it a secret. trust me, from past expirences, secrets always come out in the end, and if they go on for a long time, it doesnt turn out to become pretty...
2007-01-15 20:34:52 · answer #2 · answered by ravenfeathers555 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Us guys have a "don't date your friend's ex" rule, i don't know about girls. Needless to say, I think what you're doing is very dangerous.
From my perspective, I think your bff is worth much more to you than this boy. Use your head, not your heart. I say this because your heart is going to tell you to go in a different direction every day, so it's kind of unreliable right now.
2007-01-15 20:35:22 · answer #3 · answered by John C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put yourself in your friends shoes. Would you like her to keep something like that from you. Secrets from friends are not good. Just be honest with her.
2007-01-15 20:36:39 · answer #4 · answered by LittleMiss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm how about growing up and respecting your best friend for starters.
2007-01-15 20:33:44 · answer #5 · answered by signalfirst 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋