does it decrease the chances of him not liking you?
2007-01-15 12:22:10 · 18 answers · asked by Kat 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Depends on how skillful you are, and depends a bit on the guy.
The classic mistake the girls make is just to flee at a dead run without leaving any "trail" to follow. That just makes them think that you're incredibly scared of them, or maybe somehow mentally retarded.
Do it right and you can dangle a guy on your string for an amazingly long time (years!)
Now, the ethical value of doing so...
2007-01-15 12:27:00 · answer #1 · answered by John C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All guys like the thrill of the chase! I can tell you this from a guys perspective! It makes it all the sweeter when she slows down long enough for you to catch her! The women these days do not know how to play the game. Men get bored too easily with women that they can have today and discard the next day! When a woman has a sense of morality it makes her look like someone worth chasing even though a guy may not show it at first, he will be most interested in pursuit of this woman because there are not that many of them now.It shows she is a woman of quality and character. Stick with the old fashioned way ladies because your grandmas knew something you gals never learned! The guys that move on are only after one thing anyway and are not worth having! Something always looks better to you if you can't have it. It is always more desirable! Trust me!
2007-01-15 20:33:38 · answer #2 · answered by Alan C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem with playing hard to get is that too many girls don't understand the law of supply and demand. When you're young girls haven't got enough life experience to differentiate. Further conformity among cliques make a lot of girls pretty much the same. When a girl plays hard to get, it is possible (even likely) that a guy will move on to a more receptive respondant.
2007-01-15 20:33:08 · answer #3 · answered by Goofy Foot 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends what he wants from you. If he just wants to hook up, then he will look elsewhere. If he really likes you, he will pursue you. Playing hard to get is definitely better than being too easy. You will get more respect that way. But you shouldn't be impossible to get either :)
2007-01-15 20:33:49 · answer #4 · answered by gobanana516 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my personal actual present experience this type of behaviour will make them want more of you because men WANT CHALLENGE they are used to getting everything easy so this will make them feel ur special and mysterious and will want to conquer you. They like the thrill of a new hard to get experience!
Keep ur game the way it is u will be surprised!
2007-01-15 20:30:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was with my boyfriend for 4 years id make out with him but i didn't DO anything till a year into the relationship i thought hey he stuck around so i gave him a reward and the more comfortable i was the more i did but i didn't have SEX with him because im waiting for marriage and he respects me so much for that and hes not walking around horny as hell because he still get something
2007-01-15 20:30:26 · answer #6 · answered by deey728 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you play hard to get, some guys will think you are too full of yourself, and steer clear of you.
2007-01-15 20:26:34 · answer #7 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that all depends on the type of guy he is.Some guys might like a more serious woman.Don't leave him hanging too long, gotta flirt some.
2007-01-15 20:26:41 · answer #8 · answered by swtluvingcntrygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope..it increases the chance they will like u..that's wat mi opinion is..i am playing hard to get too..u hav to get thorugh ppl to have me..and hey..i know that 13 ppl like me in mi school...and i'm 13..so it doesn't shoo tha gy u like away..it makes it come to u...
2007-01-15 20:26:34 · answer #9 · answered by LeBaNeSeHoTtIe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, thats a tough one. All men are different. I know you might not wanna hear that, but its true.
2007-01-15 20:25:06 · answer #10 · answered by youjrys 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋