2007-01-15 11:44:18 · 13 answers · asked by SEXY L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's difficult to say. Just a few things to consider before you do something rash that you may regret later.
Are you married in your current relationship? Do you have kids together with him/her? How long you two have been together? What issues exist in your current relationship that remain unresolved and will they ever be resolved? What has brought on these new found feelings for another? Are the feelings that you are experiencing now with someone else real or an emotional escape from your current partner? What does the person your in love with emotionally give you that your current partner isn't giving you? Basically, what void is this other person filling? Whatever the outcome, I hope things work out for you.
2007-01-15 14:22:27 · answer #1 · answered by J T 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to consider leaving the relationship to be fair to the person that you're with. If you don't love them then it's only right to set them free to potentially find someone who will. To stay in a relationship when you are no longer in love, but in fact are in love with someone else, is just a way to not stretch beyond your comfort zone and risk potential loss or making a mistake... but it's not fair to the one you're with. It's time to make a decision.
2007-01-15 22:13:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you aren't in love with the person you are with, thats the first thing to address. Thats the reason to break up. I wouldn't break up with someone I was in love with, even if I were in love with someone else. When you have love and a relationship that has grown, it is more then just love. If your relationship is falling apart and you are ready to break up, thats step one. Going out with someone new is step two.
2007-01-15 19:51:48 · answer #3 · answered by hummingbirdnectar 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is easy to be with one guy and get attracted to another, you know you can not have to men unless you are into that kind of thing. In most relationships people tend to stick with the one person they want to be with. So the obvious choice is to figure out who you really want to be with and have something in common with, then once you have choosen then either let the other guy go or be friends. Have a relationship with the one you are really interested and see where that goes.
2007-01-15 20:00:59 · answer #4 · answered by gordonflames242003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself why you allowed yourself to be in a position to cultivate feelings of love for someone who isn't your significant other.
Time to make a choice.
2007-01-15 19:49:32 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would follow your heart to be with the one that you love. I wouldn't hurt the one that you're with, but you probably don't have a way around that problem.
2007-01-15 19:51:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really need to think about what you want to do, and who do you want to be with. Its very important that you be with who do you want to be with, why arent you with that person??? Will you be happy when you are with that someone else you love. Think about what you want to do, rationalize, and you do what you know will make you happy.
2007-01-15 19:55:14 · answer #7 · answered by Ms. Q 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I sure wouldn't let the one I don't love think I do love him.
I wouldn't led him on
I would be honest and tell him my feelings..
2007-01-15 19:50:00 · answer #8 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop lying to yourself and them - break up with him and figure out what you truly feel before you involve others lives
2007-01-15 19:50:52 · answer #9 · answered by kd baby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you obviously have to dump the person you are with. you shouldn't do that to that person, it's wrong to them. even if that person doesn't love you back, its mean.
2007-01-15 19:48:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋