should i give him the second chance i really love him. but wen he told his mum he broke up with me she told him ask me for another chance. do u also think its because of his mum he wants another chance and he says that he really loves me. I love him a lot. his parents really likes me
2007-01-15 11:36:57 · 35 answers · asked by lil babe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he says cause of school
2007-01-15 11:45:24 · update #1
It sounds like you are not sure if he will break up with you again. First, ask him this question: you just broke up with me what make you change your mind? Then follow your heart.
2007-01-15 11:41:32 · answer #1 · answered by abc 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all, Why did he brake up with you in the first place if he really loves you and is happy?? Something must have been bothering him and who's saying he wont do it agian!! If you really love him then i guess you should give him a second try!! But I would start the relationship a little slower this time to gain stronger trust and honesty!! If he loves you he will understand and want to take things slower!! Good luck!!
2007-01-15 11:44:48 · answer #2 · answered by Mrgn Michelle<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you still have such strong feelings for him, and he for you, it sounds like you both deserve to try again. Part of growing up is realizing that people are not perfect...and most of us need second chances. Whether his parents are a factor or not, if you believe he still loves you, it can't hurt to try again. If you walk away from the situation, you may always wonder if it would have worked. Better to find out than to live with regrets.
2007-01-15 11:43:55 · answer #3 · answered by mynickname 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it all depends on why he broke up with u in the first place. If he didn't like he wouldn't have asked for another chance. Since when does anyone listen to their mom
2007-01-15 11:42:21 · answer #4 · answered by aspen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why in the world did he break up with you in the first place? You need to get a straight answer from him, because from what you're telling here, it sounds like his parents have guilted him into asking you back into his life. Don't be his yo-yo girlfriend. Make him be up front with you and then make a wise, self-respecting decision after that. It sounds like you are very wrapped up in him, so don't waste any more of your love on him until he can prove to you that he is worth it.
2007-01-15 11:40:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a tough one. First thing to consider is this: why did he break up with you? Obviously, something was upsetting him. Is this something he is willing to talk about and work through with you? Or something that will get brushed aside and bottled up? Because if he ignores it and/or refuses to try to work through it with you, it'll just get worse and he'll end up breaking up with you again.
I used to believe in the "three strikes and you're out" method; i learned the hard way that with relationships, it doesn't work all that well. That's just my experience - yours may be different.
Talk to him; ask him why he broke up with you, and ask him why he wants to get back together with you now. Then sleep on it, think about it, and tell him you need some time to figure it out.
2007-01-15 11:43:04 · answer #6 · answered by squidpiggy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest that you both take a time out to figure things out before you decide to get back together. Talk over the reasons that he broke up with you, and let things settle first, then see if you want to try again.
2007-01-15 11:40:41 · answer #7 · answered by Justsyd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hear is some advice from a guy, Do Not Fall For His Trap! This guys is trying to continue on doing what he has been doing, dating two girls at one time. This guy does not love you, because if he did, he would want to share his love for you to everyone instead of trying to keep it a secret. This is not acceptable, and you should drop him. He dumped you because he is attracted to someone else, and even though he probably is still attracted to you, you do not want to be a boy's second option. Too many girls fall for "I Love You" in reality he really means "I Think You Are Sexy". So please drop him and leave him to be.
2016-05-24 18:26:51 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you he break up with you in the first place? If you think that he could possible make you feel sad again then you shouldn't get back with him. If you feel like he truly love you and he won't break your heart then get back with him. It might just be that his parents think you're the right girl for him. The truth is. WHAT does he think?! =/ Good luck
2007-01-15 11:40:27 · answer #9 · answered by craz34jason 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's a little shady that he broke up with you, and realized it was wrong after speaking with his mother. but yeah some ppl realized what they lost when they no longer have it anymore. i don't think it will be wrong taking him back if you think things will be better. but don't make it easy, let him tell you why he misses you, why he wants you back, how did he feel while you guys were broken up, but most of all why did he break up with you....if he has good answers then you go on from there, but if not you have to be the one to decide rather or not it's worth it.
2007-01-15 11:47:40 · answer #10 · answered by T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you know if he is that much of a Mama's boy to go back with you simply because his Mother told him to.
In you heart of hearts you must know if you feel loved by him. It is so nice that his family likes you.That is pretty rare these days,not to many nice girls to be found anymore.
"GIVE HIM ANOTHER CHANCE IF HE DESERVES IT"
2007-01-15 11:49:31 · answer #11 · answered by Jill ❤'s U.S.A 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋