I love my boyfriend to death. We've been dating for 4 in a half months and I'll do anything for him. It scares me he doesn't like me as much as I like him. How can I make him like me more, or as least as much as I like him? (I'm in middle school so keep it PG!)
2007-01-15 11:29:02 · 12 answers · asked by ♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are in middle school than don't worry. Boys at this age will do anything to keep a girlfriend, especially if you are his first girlfriend. Just make sure to keep him happy and care for him. You get back what you put in to a young relationship. So if you put all you have into it then you will most likely get everything he has to offer. Stay open and honest with him about how you feel. Be careful and try not to get hurt though. Good Luck.
2007-01-15 11:39:45 · answer #1 · answered by Dr. Williams 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stoooooooooooooooooooop worrying about it.
Love is love. You don't love to be loved back. If you truly loved him, you would be thankful of this opportunity to love him, not the need for him to prove himself.
You've been together 4 or so months. That's not a long time. Some people take longer to understand their feelings. 'Love' is just an extension of 'caring'. I'm sure he cares about you. For you to feel he doesn't like you as much as you like him, suggests you don't love yourself!
You're young, he's young. Who knows if you'll end up marrying him or not. Life doesn't start and end with this guy. Just enjoy being in a relationship, enjoy his company. Putting this kind of pressure on yourself and him is a really bad idea. You're being paranoid, getting the teenage blues.
Stop worrying about being in love and being loved and just... LOVE!
2007-01-15 11:36:59 · answer #2 · answered by midsojo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about if he likes you as much as you like him. You are both young, and probably he won't be the guy you will marry 15 years from now. At this age you should just be having fun, and attend dances together, and play games, and be yourself! Just let life flow naturally and don't make it complicated!
2007-01-15 11:37:47 · answer #3 · answered by Em C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIRST OF ALL U DON'T EVEN KNOW HIM YET. U R STILL DATING HIS REPRESENTATIVE. I SAY CHILL ON THE LUV STUFF LEARN EACH OTHER FIRST. U MAY NOT EVEN LIKE IN 4 MORE MONTHS. HE WILL LIKE U IN TIME OR IF U PUSH TO HARD U WILL RUN HIM AWAY. I WORRIED ABOUT SOMEONE THAT LUV SOMEONE TO DEATH N 4 MTHS AND WILL DO ANYTHING. SO UR ROLL SWEETIE. GOOD LUCK. I'VE BEEN WITH MY GUY 1 YR AND WE HAVE BROKEN UP ONCE( WE R STILL TOGETHER) AND I WANTED TO KILL HIM ON SEVERAL OCCASIONS. SO TRUST ME U DON'T KNOW HIM LIKE U THINK. I LEARN SOMETHING NEW ABOUT MINE. :)
2007-01-15 11:38:08 · answer #4 · answered by soloyo67 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u cant make him like u more, i mean yea u can do nasty things for him to like u for that night, but other than that, he should just like u for u...and honestly if u have to ask this question, he probably doesnt feel as strongly as u do...BUT guys are also different as far as showing feelings goes, so i dont know,,but PS... ur young, he's probably not the first and last guy u'll feel this way about
2007-01-15 11:34:15 · answer #5 · answered by ☺ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he really likes you hell tell you but you've only been going out for 4 months give it sometime time relationships are all about trust and communication
2007-01-15 11:35:08 · answer #6 · answered by godsgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm. you shouldn't question his love for you. Some guys, not all guys, but some guys aren't good at showing their love. When he wants to show it he will. Just be patient
2007-01-15 11:33:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls have always been too soft. You girls fall in love too easy and have no idea what in the world you want or where your headed.
2007-01-15 11:32:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
communication is the most important thing in a relationship besides love and trust.
just talk about it
2007-01-15 11:31:52 · answer #9 · answered by the ultimate lacrosse player 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't make him like you it comes with time so relax and enjoy the moment.
2007-01-15 11:33:26 · answer #10 · answered by lara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋