he's always accusing me of cheating and i'm not. every time i step out even if its for five minutes but he always seem to be the nervous one
2007-01-15 11:18:26 · 27 answers · asked by Janellys H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's asking you if you're cheating, because he's the one who's cheating. He wants to get the suspicion off himself.
Or maybe he's just extremely insecure.
2007-01-15 11:20:45 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's possible he is...or that he was cheated on before and is so insecure about it that he fears any moment he doesn't know where you are, you are doing something you shouldn't be.
Sit him down and have a serious discussion about this...about why he's constantly accusing you. You should be able to determine if he appears to be the guilty one or if he's just punishing you for the sins of a past lover.
He does need to understand though, that constant mistrust can drive a wedge between you and eventually run you off. It's tough to care about someone who constantly accuses you of doing something that crummy.
2007-01-15 11:23:54 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your man, as you say is accusing you of cheating and you are not, my guess is that he does not have confidence in himself so that makes him doubt your sincerity. I doubt that he is guilty of something,or if you believe he is hiding something from you, like he is the one who is cheating ,well then leave him because a cheater is always a cheater. but first have a long talk with him and tell him point blank what is bothering him, not to hide anything from you because the truth always comes out. I hope that things will work out alright between you two.
2007-01-15 11:35:35 · answer #3 · answered by a.vasquez7413@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive asked that question to my partners of the past and I was not cheating however I was definitly thinking about it. He could be asking you because he is feeling guilty about his own thoughts or maybe he is repressing his thoughts about it and taking it out on you. Just ask him, the feelings of someone wanting to have sexual relations with others is completely human and it will never go away with anyone you date. Communication is key. Im basically saying that people always have thoughts of sex.
2007-01-15 11:24:55 · answer #4 · answered by renew69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, he is cheating. My ex used to do the same damn thang. He constantly asked me where I was going and wouldn't let me just hang out with my girlfriends. That means that your boyfriend is insecure about himself. He has been doing some things that he wasn't supposed to be doing and now he's trying to shift the blame off on you to make himself feel better. If I were you, i'd dump his ***, and move on! He doesn't deserve you.
2007-01-15 11:29:48 · answer #5 · answered by Stefi13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How typical, all women think alike, if he confronts you about cheating then HE must be cheating, what a load of crap, Maybe he really thinks you are cheating...ever consider that?
You only have to know one thing about a guy to know if he's cheating...and that is does he have the option to cheat? Or better put, does he have anyone to cheat with? A man is only as faithful as his options....
2007-01-15 11:23:07 · answer #6 · answered by Federal Agent 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
when one person is doing somthing destructive in a relationship and feels bad they want to know that they are not the only one, although if you were cheating i wouldnt be suprised if he were mad. if you arent cheating on him and he continues to ask you, i suggest you ask him, in an intement moment and see how long it takes him to respond. the time to respond is an interesting test done usually with visual stimulants but in some cases works with verbal questioning aswell... see how long it takes him to answer you, i would say under .5 seconds would mean he is, over .5 under 2 he probabbly isnt and over that if he hesitates i would say he is, but that is a test usually used on visual stimulants as i said. but try it, humor me, let me know the outcome please.
2007-01-15 11:24:58 · answer #7 · answered by Raymond 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has a guily conscious and may have cheated on you. My advice is it to address the issue with him such as Why are you asking me so often if I am cheating on you? Or the next time he asks it reply back, "Are you cheating on me?"
Good luck.
2007-01-15 11:22:58 · answer #8 · answered by The Y 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hah men they never cease to amaze me. i am 85 percent sure that he is the one cheating. i been watching too many maury shows lol but maybe he has trust problems from his other relationships both of you shhould a therapist or something and resolve this
good luck
2007-01-15 11:23:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is either cheating or extremely insecure! Either way you need to walk quietly to the closest exit and bail out!~
2007-01-15 11:22:36 · answer #10 · answered by dfgrace22 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋