I have heard once a cheater always a cheater.. and I have seen it proven a few times.. but is it always true? Can a good man really be a good man... can a man change his ways?
2007-01-15 11:14:15 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think anyone can change their ways especially if they love someone. i have cheated before. im 24 now and have been with my man since i was 19 and i have never cheated on him and i never would. we have 2 kids - i think a lot changes when your happy, in love, and have respect for the person your with
2007-01-15 11:19:20 · answer #1 · answered by kd baby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it is not always true. some men are true and also faithful, but others arent mature enough to realize what a real relation shhip is. once a cheater always a cheater is not always yrue b/c a person can always change their ways but it has 2 be something good that happens 2 them or bad 2 them 2 make them make such achange
findng a good soal mate is realli hard! but not all men are bad
also not all of them are perfect.
2007-01-15 11:20:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! Anyone can change their ways if they truly want to.
A man may find himself in a situation (cheating) and is then sincerely sorry for his actions. But the key word is SINCERELY. If he is truly sorry, and you give him another chance, he needs to earn your trust again. He may also need therapy. Sometimes a second chance can lead to a very happy life with this man. On the other hand, it can lead to him cheating again. If the latter is the case, I wouldn't give him the chance to ever do it again. That's it for him and the relationship.
If you are not married to this man, make sure he gets therapy before taking the relationship to that next step. You might want to go with him to some of his therapy sessions.
I have seen many people change their lives around and many who just would not.
Change is a choice, and sometimes it takes someone they really love to help them through.
I always find that God can help anyone who desires to change.
2007-01-15 11:44:01 · answer #3 · answered by coolkatt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's hard to say.. some males grow up and some don't. a good man will always be a good man even though they fall short at times. if they learn from their wrong doing, they may change, but if they continue to do the same things over and over again, most likely they won't change.
2007-01-15 11:20:29 · answer #4 · answered by Lakenya P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well usually a cheater is a cheater......but maybe there might be one guy out there that is able to change...only one though
2007-01-15 11:18:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some can change, the ones who really want to. Most men don't want to because they are having too much fun.
2007-01-15 11:18:23 · answer #6 · answered by ßαßε 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a playboy always a playboy until he's too old and ugly and dying from too many std's for women to look his way. Sad, but true.
2007-01-15 11:17:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Anyone can change but he has to find a reason to change,They must first change their perceptions in their life, Find what matters most.
2007-01-15 11:29:53 · answer #8 · answered by bob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
err I remember when I was a little kid I stole 20$ from my parents but since then I never stole a dime .
2007-01-15 11:17:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not true. But if he cheats a second time, then it applies.
2007-01-15 11:17:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋