Why is it so hard for a single girl to find a nice bloke?

Question

Don't take offence blokes!....but it just seems that all single men are after just one thing...is there any nice ones out there?...or am I just dreaming!

Answer 1

Because men are tw*ts. Emm no,I don't know why. I am single and I joined match.com. I also have not been on a night out since mid August and work in a female dominated profession. I have made big changes for the new year and have made a location change.

I think that we are also drawn to people that we perhaps shouldn't be and although we don't realise it we may build up patterns in relationships so the same thing keeps happening. I also think as we get older and we become more keen to find a long term partner we can become more keen to find 'perfection' in a partner. This narrows our choices and actually makes finding 'Mr Right' more difficult.

I also think it is most important to be confident and satisfied with yourself before you look for a long term partner. I feel that if you aren't you can never develop the type of relationship which you want because your own insecurities will eventually always rise to the surface and cause problems.

Well thast just my thoughts :-)

Answer 2

There are nice guys out there
and you don't generally meet them in bars or clubs thought, you know what i mean?

Just for the hell of it, to turn your definition for single men around could mean that nice guys would be after many things!!! May a real nice bloke is not after anything other than a nice gal to share things with... Although nice blokes tend to see the girls go off with the not so nice, so there's nice and there is too nice.
Cheers.
Does this help you and are you any wiser now?

Answer 3

staggering blokes tend to not have a similar features as gamers. gamers are oftentimes greater constructive, cocky and socially aggressive. Now to a participant an rather appealing woman who isn't purely for sure appealing yet is dolled up and dresses the section in many eyes wud be the counterpart to a participant. She's a conquest, a woman it is vitally warm and there to have exciting so the organic attraction and strategies-set happens between her and the male equivalent. Why do gamers strategies-set those females better than "staggering blokes"? Cuz staggering blokes are not as socially aggressive or constructive, there is intimidation there, and the phobia of not purely rejection however the phobia of appearing silly. so staggering blokes seems for astonishing females with whom they experience they have greater in ordinary with and and are greater comfortable coming near. that's to not say staggering blokes do not purely like the rather appealing females, yet rather appealing females would look inconceivable and unapproachable to "staggering blokes" so the chase much less possibly to be takin up by somebody who lacks the theory that they'd get whoever they pursue..

Answer 4

Sounds like you are mixing with wrong sort of people! I have this problem but in reverse! seems a lot of emphasis is on the casual one night type thing. May be I am just odd but I would prefer more.
Get out more, join gym or persure a interest you will meet new people and build confidence and meet the one for you somewhere down the line

Answer 5

Apples and wine:

Women are like apples on trees. The best ones are at
the top of the
tree. Most men don't want to reach for the good ones
because they are
afraid of falling and getting hurt. Instead, they
sometimes take the apples
from the ground that aren't as good, but easy. The
apples at the top
think something is wrong with them, when in reality,
they're amazing. They
just have to wait for the right man to come along, the
one who is brave enough to
climb all the way to the top of the tree.

Now Men.... Men are like a fine wine. They begin as
grapes, and it's up
to women to stomp the **** out of them until they turn
into something
acceptable to have dinner with.

hope this explains it for you!!!!!!!!

Answer 6

What a 'just one thing' you are too. Your first question, posted at midnight gets 20 answers in 17 minutes.

How you can spot a 'nice bloke' (your definition) would therefore be easy. He will be in the 0.081% of all single men who weren't panting and clammering for your attentions.

Should stick out like a turd in a fruitbowl!

Answer 7

I have the exact opposite problem. I am a gentleman and bein this way in the past has got me nowhere except in the 'friend' zone with girls i have fancied.

I just want a girl to love and someone who loves me. Don't care how mushy it sounds, that is all i want but as i said girls think of me as ol' reliable dave with his shoulder to cry on not dave the babe magnet

I am a gent and i just dont know how much that is really appreciated these days.

So to answer your question hun, if you are looking for a nice guy, i can tell you where one lies

>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> me!!

they are out there hun, go and find 'em!

Dave, UK

Answer 8

Men are wired that way its a survival thing going back 40 '000 years no joke , woman are attracted to certain traits that jerks and badboys do and theirfore are attracted and the nice guys are left out because there not attractive ie their not strong , challanging , dominant , charismatic , masculin etc . Its all based on biology .

Answer 9

im a nice bloke not after the 1 thing. ur just not looking hard enuff

Answer 10

Its typical really.

I'm always thinking to myself why on earth its so hard for a single man to find a nice women.

Shame I don't know you personally. Maybe we could have helped each other out.