I was with a guy for three years and he said we nedded to go our seperate ways. Now we have been apart for 3 months but we still love eachother and he is with someone else and I dont know how to get back with him and he doesn't know what to say to her as a break up we both need some advice PLZ HELP???!!
2007-01-15 11:07:16 · 46 answers · asked by Baby Bear 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I understand. He just couldn't control his extreme love and desire for you so to save himself from the torment of living agonizing minutes and hours without your presence daily he found another woman. Of course he only is with her because he loves you so much and doesn't want to harm you with his imperfections. He is truly a loving person.
2007-01-15 11:11:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Even if she's far away..it doesnt make what he's doing to you right at all. He's a pig sweetie. Im sure he's not IN LOVE with her but they have mutual connection. They both know what there doing to you and dont care. If she was here, he would definately cheat on you. I hope you wake up and dump this boy..he's 34 and still acts like a child!!! Hope this helps and u realize u deserve better than this..or if u decide to put up with his ****..than u deserve each other. Good luck!!
2016-05-24 18:14:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm, if he's only been with this other girl for less than three months why would it be so hard to break up? If your guy actually does like you better, then he needs to get a backbone and be fair to both you and the other girl. In any case, someone who doesn't choose is selfish.
2007-01-15 11:11:36 · answer #3 · answered by Julian A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he loved you, he wouldn't have broken up with you. If he loved you, he wouldn't be sleeping with another woman and saying he can't break up with her. He broke up with you with no problem so why is he having an issue now? The only advice you need is to leave this loser alone. Not only did he break up with you for no reason, he's trying to cheat on his current girlfriend and crying like a baby. He's a loser any way you look at it. If you want him, call her up and tell her he wants to end it but can't. I can guarantee he won't be pleased with that little trick and you won't have to worry about his love anymore.
2007-01-15 11:12:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really wants to get back with you, he will. All he has to tell her is he made a mistake. Maybe he is playing both of you. Keep yourself open to other guys. Don't wait around for this guy, It's
his loss if you find someone else. The guy sounds like a flake.
2007-01-15 11:13:57 · answer #5 · answered by judywalker23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LMAO!!!! Why dont you 2 remember why the real reason is that you broke up in the first place. Fighting all the time, I know when you weren't fighting things were great, but you were always fighting. Even when you went out with friends you tried to hide it..... but everybody knew. Stay away from each other, you're like oil and water.
2007-01-15 11:13:08 · answer #6 · answered by Ken J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you want to get back with a guy who is obviously a liar, a cheat and a user? He leaves you then gets involved with somene else now wants to dump her and get back with you? For how long? Until something else comes along that he likes better? I'd tell him to hit the road that's not love.
2007-01-15 11:12:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
PLZ move on... bcuz as soon as u guys get back 2gether, the same thing will happen and u will break up. Trust me.... thats not love, he's just using u. He probably thinks of u as a back up plan... as soon as something goes wrong with his current relationships, he'll come back 2 u, but u have 2 kno that urself.
but 2 answer ur question, if he really wanted 2 break up with her, he'd kno wut 2 say just like he knew wut 2 say when u 2 broke up.
2007-01-15 11:15:10 · answer #8 · answered by naughtygirlof06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to be honest with the other girl and tell her of his true feelings for you. If he doesn't I would question whether or not he truly does still love you. It is hard to hurt another (the other girl), but isn't he hurting you by staying with her? I would lay down the law and give him an ultimatum. If he doesn't stop seeing her, it's time for you to move on.
2007-01-15 11:11:55 · answer #9 · answered by Phyllobates 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You ever heard the Ole saying "if you love something set it free if it comes back it's your if it doesn't it never was.." Now this is not to say he doesn't love you, But I think he has moved on. why i say this is because if he really wanted to leave this person he's with hw could simply do it ..just as he left you..sorry if that cold but it's called Real TALK!
2007-01-15 11:14:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋