There's a kid in my french class who is absolutely gorgeous but he's kind of shy and doesn't talk a lot, even with his friends.
I know he kind of has his eye on this other girl but i've liked him since I first knew him and have only talked to him a few times.
I am soo not conceited but I really do believe that I am prettier than this girl, and I know i'm smarter because, no offense, but she's incredibly stupid.
Guys i especially need your help, what's the best thing I can do to have him notice, and hopefully be interested in me?
I usually never have problems with guys but this is a challenge!!
2007-01-15 10:54:08 · 9 answers · asked by GCTA 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Toddler & Preschooler
Not sure how old you are... and I'm obviously only guessing.. but I'd figure you are in your early teens?!!
From what you have mentioned about this guy, it sounds as though you are infatuated, and are driven by the fact that you find this situation a challenge. The fact that you don't really know this guy to well, as you have mentioned that he doesn't really communicate too much, also points towards the notion that you maybe experiencing lust more than "love" towards this fine french fellow!
Keep in mind also that there are the rare men out there that prefer a pleasant and modest personality over looks and A grade marks... ask yourself what type of personality you would find less threatening or even more desirable if you were in his shoes (remember, he sounds as though he is a quiet and reserved person!)
If you are genuinelly interested in this guy, I'd try a quietly confident, yet modest approach. Try and avoid putting the "competition" down by using degrading and catty remarks, as I feel this may lose you points. If he is a shy person, that type of nasty behaviour will turn him off big time, you may leave him thinking twice about getting emotionally or physically involved with someone who has the potential to "put him down".
Remember... take a quiet, modest and flattering approach. Ask him out on a date that involves a quiet location where you can maybe get him to open up more so you can get to know him better... and no.. not just on a physical level... resist the temptation of tagging him first just so as you can stick it up the competition. That would be conceited!
Good luck!
2007-01-15 11:29:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Prettier, smarter, sh'e stupid? no conceit in those statements!!! Give that some thought, OK?
As a former boy, I was never looking at smart, really and often the size of a girl's brain is judged by the size or shape of less intellectual things. sometimes guy aren't even looking for smart and often, not smarter than they!
You may be prettier, at least in your definition, but attraction is a hard thing to understand. I never liked very pretty types anyway as a teen, or toogirly of a girl, or girls who always messed with their make-up and had a mirror. I liked cute girls who were easy going (not easy), just friendly and likeable and who couldhave a zit or something and not freak! I didn't like girls or people who puffed their own pillow too much, or criticizes others faults either.
He may find her more atttractive for looks even if you can't see it, He may mesh better with her personality, etc. It is hard to tell.
Attraction is very hard to understand. you might try to notice her positive traits and how he reacts to her actions etc. You can't not be yourself but when we are teens we are changing a lot any way. if you like him, do not become her, but see how he reacts to her andsee what you can tone down, or what makes him laugh, jusy observe him with other girls and his guy friends too, what does he like , etc?.
then, if at some point she is not of interest to him anymore, make amove, but if they are an item or he really likes her, stay away from mesing with that relatinship, it's high school, it'll end, if it is going to, soon enough.
My daughter who was pleasant and "cute-ish" had more boys interested than her two best friends who were gorgeous.
She even went fishing with them some and once she helped this boy put a muffler on his car, no kidding!! Got her nails dirty, feet dirty, etc.
She was and is just cute ( Ithink very cute' cause she looks like her mom), not knock down gorgeous.
He has an MBA and makes a great living and they have been married 13 years.
Best of luck
2007-01-15 11:22:01 · answer #2 · answered by rumbler_12 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I love my guitar up to I love intercourse with my lady. I'm now not shy or in advance with love. I'm a little bit extra sneaky with it however to not the factor in which it may not get spotted. Libra Sun Pisces Moon
2016-09-08 00:52:39 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok have the same problem to but she is never noticing me.but i say that you should go hang out wiht him more .mak hm less shy by talkin to him.love is confusing but i think you should tell him how you feel.i mess up in my own problem i donnt know wat to do .if my message help im me and give me advice to
2007-01-15 11:05:32 · answer #4 · answered by Runaway1993 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Touch & Casual contact..
Stand very close to him, touch him...
When you walk with him , take his arm and press it against
your breast...
All casual contact and all "accidental" but he will
definitely get the message without your saying anything.
2007-01-15 11:03:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
ask him for a studdy date on french
2007-01-15 10:57:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he's french give him a french kiss.
2007-01-15 11:03:42 · answer #7 · answered by rossj12003 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
if it were me id corner him in a dark place and fkuc his brains out. take your man girl.
2007-01-15 10:58:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
show him your panties maybe upskirt
2007-01-15 11:12:22 · answer #9 · answered by blank 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋