Would it be a sin for a woman to fornicate with others aside from her soulmate? Most would like to have both but for the sake of arguments on population, seems like they could not and gays and lesbian prosper on it. so, what is marriage in the eyes of God?
And last but not the least, what matter to you most, married to the one you have bows with or to the one you lost your virginity with?
2007-01-15
10:53:52
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Ohay, with the answer I received, I would like to add another question.So... after some analysis of the reply I received, marriage by virginity under the grace of God in a so called ignoramus people and their fornication outside their bond is not adultery but just a casual sex but by the ordained of the Priest, marriage will make fornication outside the ordainance of God after the marriage of a couple with Priest blessings will make it an adultery then?
2007-01-15
14:42:30 ·
update #1
This topic I have questioned, marriage, will seperate the views of the Lords, even with the Gentiles, up to this modern world. So, love one another as Jesus Christ have loved us. Peace..
2007-01-17
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update #2
You are talking about adultery which is grounds for divorce.
2007-01-15 10:56:41
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answered by notyou311 7
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if a person lost his/her virginity outside of marriage, that person is a fornicator. Hey (raises hands) Im guitly. it has been taught that having sex is the lower form of marriage, it is consentual and the laws can make people married if not even civily married.
if a virgin marries a man she is bound to that man. Soul mates dont necessarily exist, but there are those that would be married. frankly if a person says they are your soul mate, ask them how many times they have reincarnated! lol.
perchance the current reincarnation is to Avoid each other.
On the other hand if a marriage is truly UNCLEAN, if the woman is adulterous, it is better to dissolve the marriage. if the husband is Unrighteous and will not repent, it would be better to dissolve it. It willcome a day when the HOLY ghost will Bless each marriage OR NOT. The only promise that counts is the Bond and PROMISE of the holy ghost. in those days, men who had wives will be loosed and the wives will be given unto men of HIGH and HOLY righteousness.
For those men and women who do not have a marriage, God will join whom he will, as HE chooses, sort of like Adam and Eve being joined together. rember Adam was declared ALONE and God said it was NOT Good. So he made EVE to be his wife. They were called man and wife even before they ate the forbidden fruit.
But if there is ONE woman for ONE man, and one man for one woman, as foreordained by fate, i do not believe it. if there was two people that would most likely come together, there are high probabilities just by living in one city that will increase the chance and opportunity. But, if either one fornicates, the chances become slim that they will find each other. There is mercy either way on either path we follow. soul mates are NEVER GAY. that is an illusion and deceitful trick of satan. there are kindred families and spirits, but they are not always righteousness.
2007-01-15 11:14:34
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answered by Anonymous
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Consummation, sealing a marriage through intercourse, is not a prerequisite for marriage; however, it is far less likely that a marriage will be successful without it since it is an act of faith to one's spouse.
Marriage is a commitment to the Lord to uphold specific vows. Marriage is supposed to be a reflection of the love of God for us, between a husband and a wife. The key element of this love being forgiveness. God only allows one sin to remain unforgiven between two spouses, adultery, but it is not his will or plan. Even adultery should be forgiven by a truly loving and committed spouse.
I am a virgin, and have no desire to have sexual relations outside of marriage and for any reason but to pleasure a husband.
2007-01-15 11:14:47
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answered by Anonymous
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You have probably heard the phrase; Today is the first day of the rest of my life. You know that the past is past. You cannot change it. However, you can change yourself beginning today.
Your attitude is one thing you can control. You must determine to focus your life on obtaining worthwhile values. Everyone needs...a purpose to live for...a self they can live with...and a faith to live by. "Blessed is the person who trusts in the Lord, and whose hope is the Lord..." Jeremiah 17:7-8.
I wake up every morning with a choice. I can be miserable over what I do not have or I can be Thankful and happy for what I do have.
Looking up is great, seeing the beauties of the heavens. Looking down you see mud.
Yes, a woman that has lost her virginity can have a good marriage - if she determines to be a good, faithful, honest woman.
2007-01-15 11:21:18
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answered by By George - Auburn Hills 1
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If I'm understanding you correctly, you are talking about premarital sex.
1) Not everyone believes what you believe; therefore, premarital sex is not a sin to them.
2) Sexual compatibility is a major issue in most relationships. The more knowledge you have about sex and about yourself sexually before entering a marriage can help ease this issue. Obtaining this knowledge does not require being with more than one mate before marriage, so it does not lend to promiscuity.
3) Yes, when I wed my future husband, it will be marriage even though I've been with two men prior to him. He accepts me as is, and he does not judge me on that. I accept him and his previous sexual experiences as well.
4) If gays and lesbians prosper from anything I do, I'm very happy for helping them.
5) Marriage is more than sex, and I would like to think that any all powerful being would realize that.
6) Marriage, to me, means more than who I've had sex with because marriage, to me, is far more than sex. It's developing a lifelong relationship mentally, emotionally, physically, and financially. It's learning to accept each other as is. It's learning to weather anything, including adultery. It's looking forward to spending the rest of our lives together, and then actually doing that.
The sex is a perk.
2007-01-15 11:05:56
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answered by Anonymous
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Sounds like you need a bit less Christian obsession. People will be people, it's not a sin to be human since we all are.
Sex is a part of life and always will be for pleasure as well as procreation, you need to understand that.
2007-01-15 11:14:40
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answered by Anonymous
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When we got married I was the 7th girl my hubby had been with and he was my 2nd guy. And neither of us cared about that.
2007-01-15 11:44:18
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answered by Rapunzel XVIII 5
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You are talking about adultery
2007-01-15 10:58:33
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answered by I'm crazy 4 God 4
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Yes.
2007-01-15 10:58:18
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answered by Anonymous
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I think you need a few years growing up yet.
2007-01-15 10:56:46
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answered by Anonymous
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