One girl seems to be nice, says hi to me, but she's always telling my boyfriend, which is her best friend, that she loves him. Should I be worried, what should I say to him? Or should I just brush it off cuz he says that it's harmless and it means nothing to him. But it still really bothers me. Help!!! Thanks ;)
2007-01-15 10:52:22 · 9 answers · asked by Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄ƷAℓεx & Aаяöи have my ♥ 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
there's nothing wrong with your boyfriend having close female friends.
but it doesn't seem quite right for this friend to be telling him that she loves him when she knows he has a girlfriend. but as long as he doesn't love her, it should be okay
2007-01-15 10:56:32 · answer #1 · answered by worldpeace 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're probably going to get a lot of answers like "if you trust him you won't care" and "tell him how you feel" -- Frankly, women have a really hard time NOT feeling jealous. It's difficult. You like the guy a lot... he has girl "friends" who flirt with him and you are supposed to be like... "That's cool!" -- No! We all have our insecurities. That's just the way we are. If you really DO trust, it should take a small load off your back but you kind of want the reassurance that he's not telling them things he wouldn't tell you. Or sharing things with them about your relationship. If you already told him how you felt about it and his response is it means NOTHING to him... he should really respect your feelings and lay off for a little while in his girl "friend" department. Tell him it's not that you don't trust him but it makes you uncomfortable nonetheless. If he really is into you, he'll understand. If not... that's not the type of guy you want to be with. EVEN if he is cute and nice and funny... Just say no. You deserve better. You CAN do better and you will one day.
2007-01-15 18:59:53 · answer #2 · answered by ♥ariel♥ish♥ness♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just brush it off if she's not a real threat. getting all in your bfs face about it wont help you in the long run. it just might be harmless cause i know i say "i love you" to some of my guy friends and i mean it but not in a boyfriend/girlfriend way. in more of a best friend way.
2007-01-15 19:00:02 · answer #3 · answered by Losty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boys and girls can have a strictly platonic relationship. Maybe when you hear her say I Love You, it`s like a brother. I wouldn`t worry to much as long as he stays with you but if you keep asking or act jealous then you could drive him away. Just enjoy your happiness with him and continue talking to her.
2007-01-15 19:01:33 · answer #4 · answered by mammafran77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well let me tell u sumthin dnt let ur boi have female best friends cause behind ur back dey could be doin sumthin. if u dnt wanna give him any of dat *** or *****. but if u trust him u will not worry about it. but just keep a eye after dem cause anythin can happend.
2007-01-15 19:00:26 · answer #5 · answered by sexymami562 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey.. No.. My well now ex.. had guy friends who said they love her and she said she loves em too.. I have friends who i love that are girls.. I know excatly where your comming from.. Oh trust me! And its ok to be worried but member this.. MOST THINGS I WORRY ABOUT NEVER HAPPEN.. its true.. very true..
2007-01-15 18:58:57 · answer #6 · answered by eighty dee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well kids these days. They do say i love you to their bestfriends. girls and girls and all. But she is a GIRL so i'm sure she says that to other bestfriends. just don;t worry about it. Its his bestfriend; you understand right? if it bothers you. jsut talk to her about it.
2007-01-15 18:57:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nawwww! Im not saying be insecure, but she gotta be rspectful to you. she knows you are in the picture, you need to aks her if it was you telling HER boyfriend that you loved him, how would she feel?
2007-01-15 19:01:08 · answer #8 · answered by dominique shari 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
watch when harry met sally
2007-01-15 18:58:06 · answer #9 · answered by xoheidixo10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋