So theres this guy and we were friends with benefits until I told him that I had feelings for him and I didnt want to reck our really good friendship that we have. So anyways he told me he couldnt date do to his job , and now I understand, Hes going away for 8 weeks and im really going to miss him. So will it be wrong to have sex with him at his going away party. Is it wrong even after I told him i couldnt keep doing the friends with benefits.
2007-01-15 10:51:29 · 12 answers · asked by JENNIFER C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you have had sex with him before one more time might not matter plus the 8weeks away might bring you closer.
good luck
2007-01-15 10:56:00 · answer #1 · answered by aime 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, he's using you. I understand that you'll miss him, but the distance will be good. I don't think that you should have sex with him again. It will only drag up your feelings again, feelings that he doesn't have for you. For the right girl, any guy would do the long distance thing or even ask you to come with him while he's away. You are not his right girl. This is why FWB rarely works, someone gets hurt.
2007-01-15 18:58:47 · answer #2 · answered by graybear 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A going away gift sounds good, saying goodbye to a past phase in life.
2007-01-15 18:54:57 · answer #3 · answered by Luna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you think a really good friend is one who would use you as a resepticle for his bodily fluids? Obviously you don't mind being a door mat for a guy.
2007-01-15 19:01:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends with benefits is such a crock........what type of benefit
is getting your heart broken?? Because that is exactly what you are doing....... he screwed you until you confessed that you like him and now he has to "go away".......yah right. Even if he does have to go away.........why can't you have a relationship??? Oh yah, because he wants to be able to screw whoever......whenever.
NO........do NOT sleep with him again!!!
2007-01-15 18:56:20 · answer #5 · answered by Trish 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's stupid why even ask,and why have feelings for the guy? if you cut him off that will wreck the friendship also ....you will see that 8 weeks will get allot longer........
2007-01-15 18:59:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have been having sex with him all this time and you all have been just friends!!
2007-01-15 18:56:05 · answer #7 · answered by sexychocolatecity21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For god's sake have sex with him!
2007-01-15 18:54:18 · answer #8 · answered by PS 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha...do it! Just don't get knocked up by somebody who is leaving, their liable to never come back!
2007-01-15 18:56:25 · answer #9 · answered by Silly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes and if he enjoys it he may be asking to be with you
2007-01-15 18:57:31 · answer #10 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋