My boy friend never calls me or talks to me @ school. I told him to email me this weekend and he said he would right when he got home, but he didnt. I want to give him another chance but after that do you think I should break up w/ him?
2007-01-15 10:49:14 · 41 answers · asked by Grace W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First off how old are you? Because that seems like a middle school relationship. Obviously you're too mature for him. You need to look for older/more mature guys. I'm not talking like pedophiles but at least a guy who doesn't think girls have cooties. But to sum it all up yes, I think you should break up with him.
2007-01-15 10:57:25 · answer #1 · answered by Kozzzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To break-up a relationship just b'coz he doesn''t email you is an act of immaturity. Relationship is not all about emails or calls or sms but TRUST and OPEN for discussion. Ask yourselft, do you think the relationship that you have now can go for long term relationship or not. What do you want in this relationship? Friend? Partners? Sex? Enjoyment only?
Then, whatever the other party do, would't really effect your mind...after all, you are still young and have a very long journey to go on. Don't waste your time on this issue...right!
2007-01-15 10:59:56 · answer #2 · answered by iqde 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
#1. break up with him
#2. If you picked that guy, then you obviosly don't know what love is.
#3. Wait till you grow up, then get a boyfriend.
#4. I MEAN IF YOU WERE SOO MATURE, THEN YOU WOULD OF KNOWN WHAT TYPE OF GUY HE WAS FROM THE VERY START and you would of never went out with him you immature little girl!!
I'm sorry to be brutally honest. I've read these other replies and some of them make me sick! You don't have to go out with an older guy, there are plenty of guys that are very mature that are your age, wether they are too shy to ask you out and soo shy like me, that the thought of rejection is too divestating/scary/horrific/ painful to comprehend(thats me unfortunately!), I mean soo shy that he could be sitting next to you for years and never ask you out or even talk to you.
-If I was your boyfriend I WOULD NEVER, NEVER TALK TO YOU, I would be talking to you 1000 times a day. The thought that he never talks to you and he's your boyfriend is insane!!!!!
2007-01-15 10:57:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm guessing that since you said school, that you are in high school.let me just tell you, even though i'm sure you have or wil hear it 1000 times, boys do not grow up for a very long time. sometimes you will find a special exception, and he will be mature enough to acknowledge you in public.but, a boy who does not have enough self-confidence to talk to you in public is not worth your time, sweetie.i say, break up with him, and find an older guy who can't get enough of you and have fun! life is short, that's true, so you don't want to waste your precious years on immature boys who will wind up hurting you in the long run.dump his ***.
2007-01-15 11:54:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, if you really love him, then dont break up with him! But then again if he loves you, and you leave him then he will indeed come back 2 you, but if he doesnt then there wasnt love in the first place. But before you make it final ask yourself- why is he the type to avoid you while in school? Is he embrassed or something?
2007-01-15 10:56:06 · answer #5 · answered by AD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2007-01-15 10:54:10 · answer #6 · answered by go_ahead_nbug_me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why'd you get with him in the first position? besides, only tell him that you're by with him being mean to you. do not tell him he's gruesome. in case you experience quite uncomfortable, only call the law enforcement officials and tell them your challenge and that you're fearful of him. Is your avatar you? if so, in order that that you recognize, you're eye-catching. What Kyle stated will artwork, too.
2016-11-24 20:03:14 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh, YES. He's only using you. Besides what you two have isn't a relationship. It takes two and it seems to me that he just isn't putting any effort in it. Break up with him Girl! There is better out their for you!
2007-01-15 10:56:18 · answer #8 · answered by STARS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hold steady. There may be a good reason why he didn't follow through. so you are upset. Isn't it extreme to break up with him for such a petty infraction?Give him another chance.
2007-01-15 10:56:15 · answer #9 · answered by nancy e 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's completely ignoring you at school, why are you with him? Would put up with it if it was a girlfriend treating you this way? He sounds like he's immature and not ready for a relationship. Move on.
2007-01-15 10:54:47 · answer #10 · answered by chnchita 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋