My ex broke up with me about 6 months ago. He did it in a very cruel way which i have gotten over finally...*thank gods*. I have moved off too and now were at least 1,000 miles away (I live in AK him on the east coast haha). He now chats with me at least everyday. and just recentley he told me that he wants me back..i mean he apoligized yeah but he keeps telling me things he didnt even say when we WERE even going out...i just feel very uncomfortable about all this and wish he would stop. I asked him what he expected me say about all this and he would just reply "to say you love me again" pshhh that was gone a-long time ago
WHY is he doing this to me? to hurt me again?
answers are much appreciated thx
2007-01-15 10:25:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wow i cant believe you managed to forgive him so quickly especially if he broke up with youin such a cruel way...so i dont understand why you are still speaking to him..i doubt he wants to hurt you again..not intentionally atleast, but he must feel he can manipulate you, so my advice is not to let him!
BTW, love the sn, i love Moz too!
2007-01-15 10:31:23 · answer #1 · answered by Panda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm lets assume two things, he is being genuine about how he feels about you and is expressing his true love, or he is trying to hurt you.
If he's genuine, then maybe he realized the error of his ways and realized what a jerk he was and how wrong he was to let you go in the 1st place. Maybe he was listening to other people about you or maybe your absence made his heart grow fonder...who knows.
If he isn't sincere then he still wants to hurt you. He's calling you every day because he wants to control you. You may have gotten off to easily and he wants to make you suffer even more. 1000 miles away, you still haunt him and he needs to make you suffer. You cannot escape him...with out him, you are nothing or at least that's how he feels.
IF you feel that he's capable of setting you up then tell him such or at least tell him that your heart has moved on and that you do not wish to return to that part of your life again. Tell him that he had his chance and the he did such damage that he shall never have the time to do so again. You haven't told him anything yet, so you are fueling his fires. Put them out once and for all or he will continue his love quest for you.
2007-01-15 18:47:47 · answer #2 · answered by Neptune 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u no how immature guys are. would i take him back hell no.guys think that they can treat their girlfriends any kind of way in front of their friends to show that she is just another broad from around the way. Then behind closed doors its i dont no what came over me i love u and if u and i no that it shouldnt matter about other people **** off hell no dont take him back.
2007-01-15 18:34:45 · answer #3 · answered by SugNspice_1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u just answerd ur own question ''this and he would just reply "to say you love me again" pshhh that was gone a-long time ago''
an if he hurt u that much Just forget bout him an tell him to stop.
2007-01-15 18:30:30 · answer #4 · answered by sh0rtysooseductive 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Time to ignore him/block him.
He wants you back because he can't have you. And if he had you again he'd treat you bad again. So good thing that you moved because he would annoy you til he could hurt you again.
2007-01-15 18:33:26 · answer #5 · answered by marisa_g1rl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what he's trying to do. Now the ball is in your court. Are you willing to let him back into your life? you said you have gotten over what he's done to you and you are still talking to him. so I would think that he still has a chance..........right?
2007-01-15 18:31:14 · answer #6 · answered by Lady Mandeville 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm, change your email address for starters, he **** on you basicly, so why even worry about it? You moved on, no feelings no worries right?
2007-01-15 18:37:20 · answer #7 · answered by sweetemtation_123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is over tell him it is over.
2007-01-15 18:34:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋