giving birth, twice? are you nuts?

Question

As a man i wonder how can a woman who has gone through the process of giving birth once, get herself in the condition to have to go through it a second time! Have women short memories or are they all crazy!! Giving birth looks like the most scary thing ever, is it as bad as it appears?

Answer 1

It really hurts and it lasts a really long time. Not only is labor hard but carrying the baby for 9 months is very hard too. lots of fun because you get to feel the baby kick and move inside of you but it really wears your body down. After seeing your child for the first time is so worth the pain of labor. Knowing that you made the baby and that he has your eyes and daddys ears is just the best. Hopefullu you get to experience the love and joy that comes out of your wife hard work and dedication.

Answer 2

I've given birth three times, each 2 year apart. The pain of child birth prepared me for the courage I would need to be a mother. Yes, it hurt a LOT... it was the worst pain I'd ever experienced. However, it was all worth it. (I could go on and on about all the various ways over the past 10 years that my children have made the pain of childbirth "worth it", but I'd run out of room.

It is scary and terrifying, yes. But also the most joyous experience in the whole world.

Answer 3

It's no walk in the park. Women, most of the time, have a higher threshold of pain than men do. Plus, their bodies are created to give birth. It's not the worst thing in the world. I could think of things much much more unplesant. I have 3 children (2 were twins) and I have to say that the miracle of pain reducing drugs is a leap in the right direction.

But trust me, I didn't forget the pain and effort that childbirth took and I certainly don't have a short memory.

Although, I'm done with having kids. Not because of the labor and deliever, but because of the twins. That's a form of birth control in and of itself.

Answer 4

well sense you are a man you don't have those maternal instincts to want to carry a child and go through the labor so of course you wouldn't understand it. no not all women want to have babies and i personally think even those women have urges that they don't tell anyone about. anyways though it isn't as bad as it looks. i mean yes it hurts for a little while but the result is much greater and worth the pain. to give birth to a child is the most amazing experience that a women could ever do in her life. i have two little girls and i am going to go through the labor and delivery of my third child in April. i wanted to have a son too and so i thought why not try one more time and for me the third time was a charm! i think more of having a new child in my life for me to nurture and teach and love more then i think about the fact that i am going to have to push him out soon and how it is going to hurt. i don't plan on having any more children after this only because i think that three is enough for me to have to handle but not because i don't want to go through the experience of pregnancy, labor and delivery ever again. it's a woman thing lol like i said something that a man can't ever truly understand or ever experience.

Answer 5

I'm one of those crazy women who did it twice. Many women like me opt to have another child because we recognize that carrying a baby is a special joy and a great privilege! Once I held my newborn baby all else was forgotten:)

I will agree that giving birth was a bit frightening both times. Both my experiences were great because I had a very supportive husband who helped me through it and I had a wonderful thing called an epidural:)

Answer 6

I would not say tha twe are nuts.It's just that our bodies have given us the gift of memory loss after child birth. How else do you think we are willing to get that way again. But I can tell you It does all come rushing back when you hit the delivery room for the second time.I can remember being in labor with my second son and asking my husband to explain to me why I thought that it was a good Idea to do it all over again,But sure enough our second son soon arrived and the past 18 hours were all but forgotten when they placed him in my arms.

Answer 7

It is worse than it appears... but for some reason, God gives mothers the ability to kind of "forget" the pain in exchange for the life of your little baby. Luckily, our cells cannot recall pain memories, or there would be MANY fewer people in the world! If we had the ability to conjure up the exact pain felt during delivery, mothers would NEVER go through that again!

Answer 8

Well, when we give birth sometimes it hurts, i had an emergency c-section, i didnt even know that i was in labor, i didnt feel anything from the drugs, but the next day when i woke up i was in the most pain i have ever felt, but when i saw my baby girl all that pain faded away and all i could think about was how beautiful she was and how she needed me to be okay so i didnt have time to concentrate on myself. My husband and i are trying to concieve again so i guess i dont really care about the pain, i know it'll be worth it!!!

Answer 9

Giving birth may be painful, but it is short in duration compared to the years of joy and amazement you will get from your child! As of now I only have one, but I would go through all of it again to experience the things I have with my daughter. Everyday she amazes me, the things she does and says, she is always learning and changing! I LOVE IT!

Answer 10

If she vomited and misplaced mucous, i could say she has as much as 24 hours left. provide her vanilla ice cream at a similar time as she is in hard paintings and many water, considering women lose a great quantity of calcium and fluids in the process the birthing technique. My question is, why are you breeding a team circulate, and why are you breeding her while she is merely 12 months????? Have some experience and get her spayed after the delivery.