my ex broke up with me 3months ago, it was my fault i was needy, she wanted to stay freinds i treid to win her back many times i rang her and told her how feel...eventually i got over that,, so as soon as i stopped calling her ,she started calling me, and staying on the phone for ages i just kept cool i didnt mention anything bout love or anything.. then she asked me to go for a drink with her so idid we ended up in a club and she was really flirty with me, kissing my neck holding my hand n stuff the next day she said she just wants to be freinds, a week later(new years eve) i was out in a bar she was there too. iwalked outside for a smoked and i saw her kissin another guy then she saw me and she stopped kissing him, i didnt talk to her for a few days even though she was txtin me saying sorry n trying to call me... i got over that, i called her and said sorry for over reacting, i esaid i cant stop you, she said sorry for hurting me.. she said can we start over as freinds... i said i need time to think, i txted her the next day and said i still care bout you n id rather have you as a freind than have you as nothing, she txt back, saying that i cant be her freind and not be her freind whenever i feel like it, i just said fair enough, an hour later she called she sounded like she was crying and she was saying sorry for giving out to me.. i said its ok, so we are just freinds now, but if she really wants to stay freinds, y does she txt me, e mail me, call me everying day????
what do you think??
i went to the local bar last night with my freind, and she was there... i saw her first and when she saw me she started dancing(so fake) so i went into the other side of the bar... 2 mins later she came in with her freinds, she was acting really annoying, she came over to me and said hi, i jus said hay hows it goin, and turned back to talk to my freind, for the rest of the night she stayed around the area i was in, she kept comming over to me and falling into me and putting her hand on my leg when she was talking to me.. then she sat down at a table eall on her own with a sad face which was clearly in my view.. she was mad for my attention even my freind said it was so ovious! what do you think about my ex?? do you think she really just wants to be freinds or do you think she could still want me?
she rang me today we where talking for ages she said she loves talking to me!! then this evening she txted me and asked me would i go out to dinner with her then see a movie, sometime during the week, she said she is free anytime i am... so we are going on tuesday..... does this seem like she may want me back?? i dont think she would be bothered with all this if she didnt.
2007-01-15 10:23:57 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, she doesn't you back, she just doesn't want to lose the possiblity of having you in her life. She wants you to stay in the background just in case she doesn't find what she's looking for. But believe me she doesn't want you or she would not have let you go.
2007-01-15 10:32:24 · answer #1 · answered by Jaxanne 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is ill and he desires to end the dating. His ex is pleased with this? Thats merely ill. She could have relatively low self-well worth to think of its okay to be somebody's sideline chick. She could comprehend she merits greater useful than that. he's a jerk for permitting this habit. yet he does not want to harm his contemporary gf? Yeah marvelous. How does he think of she's gonna experience whilst she reveals out the reality? She's gonna throw a occasion? i think of not! She's gonna be pissed on the reality that she had no say so in this twisted affair. he's sexin the ex and his contemporary....HELLOOOOO!!!! can we are saying illnesses and STD's waiting to ensue? however the damaging gf does not even comprehend! Thats completely not honest to her she could have a say in wether she desires to handle this dating or not. He desires to come again sparkling and rapid. on condition that he desires to work out and function intercourse along with his ex plenty then why don't you be together with her? yet atleast he desires to guy up and tell his contemporary gf howdy!
2016-12-16 05:32:08 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take this from a guy who's been in a similar situation. This girl is playing head games with you, she doesn't want to be with you but wants to keep you there "just in case" things don't work out. In other words, she wants to have her cake and eat it too. Leave this trifling ***** alone dude, find yourself a good woman.
2007-01-15 10:32:52 · answer #3 · answered by sincarnato 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think shes playing you a bit...but it kind of seems she still likes you alot if she wants your attention THAT much. But it kind of seems you have moved on and reallt just want to be her to find someone else. So if you have any feelings for her tell her now so when it finally clicks in her head that shes wasting her time if u really dont like her.
2007-01-15 10:31:23 · answer #4 · answered by Zee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she really loved you, would she have kissed that guy? my opinion is that she is slutty. ur relationship seems like a on/off one
2007-01-15 10:32:51 · answer #5 · answered by i like gums 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋