Why is it that to talk to girls I always have to pretend to ignore the fact that they're so hot to talk to them. Like only when I talk to really hot women I have to forget the whole part about them being really hot to talk to them otherwise I am not able to talk to them. Like I have to forget that they have really nice boobs and butts and not even stare at them once to talk to them. It's really weird for me.
2007-01-15 10:12:50 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, because it shows respect that you can TALK to them without checking out their bodies. We are not pieces of meat ya know.
2007-01-15 10:16:17 · answer #1 · answered by Kiki 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
These girls want you to show interest in who they are as people, even though they put great effort into looking hot. Admire the curves from a distance. Look her straight in the eyes when talking, despite the two marvelous distractions about 18 inches lower.
2007-01-15 18:17:42 · answer #2 · answered by Bob T 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeppers, that is the only way to do it. Or you will just make an a@@ of yourself. It is considered rude to stare so if you expect to make any progress with these hot women just keep doing what you are doing. Good luck.
2007-01-15 18:17:06 · answer #3 · answered by michael45672007 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You don`t have to pretend, some girls like it when you compliment them by looking. You are a totally normal guy. Don`t let it get you down. Just continue what you are doing. Sounds to me like you have the respect for girls that some jerks don`t.
2007-01-15 18:19:53 · answer #4 · answered by mammafran77 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
uhhh cuz ur a guy and the ones u have to pretend that r not hot,r the ones u really want to talk to cuz ur trying to really get to know them not just stare .lol
2007-01-15 18:17:06 · answer #5 · answered by laase12 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is just difficult for you to be all caught up in looking at them and thinking about sex and concentrate on an intelligent conversation. You just get a little nervous.and excited. Don't let it worry you.
2007-01-15 18:19:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well that good because girls don't like it when your talking to them and well your staring at their boobs.
2007-01-15 18:55:46 · answer #7 · answered by ig0tquestions 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really. You have a good coping mechanism. Its like during sex when you want to last longer, you start thinking of trash, or your mother or her mother or ugly girls. You do what ya gotta do. : )
2007-01-15 18:18:34 · answer #8 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because a rocking body IS very distracting!!
2007-01-15 18:16:48 · answer #9 · answered by LuckyEddie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you're subconsciously trying not to judge a book by it's cover.
2007-01-15 18:16:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋