Im Still in Love with My ex boyfriend and he loves me to but the only thing is that iv been with my boyfriend for one year im not really happy with him anymore. my Ex boyfriend wants to be with me to but the only thing is he says we cant becuz of the boyfriend i have now im so lost and confused all i wanna do is be happy and be with my Ex boyfriend whom im madly in Love with what should i do?
2007-01-15 10:08:12 · 8 answers · asked by sh0rtysooseductive 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yea "Jill" jus gave u some really offensive advice. She doesn't even know you or your situation, so she needs to fall back on some of what she just said. Just because you WANT to do something doesn't mean that you will...some people actually do the right thing, and I'm goin ta give you the benefit of the doubt & hope you do the right thing...Good Luck =)
2007-01-15 11:39:18 · answer #1 · answered by Nana787 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter if you get back with your ex or not you should breakup with your current boyfriend. You don't love him b/c if you did you wouldn't be thinking about your ex. Don't try and hold on to him b/c you are not sure of your ex. That's not fair. Let him go.
As far as your ex. Only you know the circumstances of why you both ended the relationship previously. Do you really believe he wants to be with you or is it that he only wants you b/c he knows you are with the current guy. Men hate it when their ex's move on to someone new. If you really both love each other then go for it. If not, don't go back to him and just take some time to be alone and figure out what you want.
2007-01-15 18:18:25 · answer #2 · answered by LuvMyGirls 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you both love each other then there's the answer...its your choice...if being with your ex is whats going to make you happy take that chance...my boyfriend broke up with me 2 weeks ago and now his best friend is telling me he thinks im getting hotter even though my ex has a new gf. Hooking up with your ex could be the best thing youve ever done! It could make the rest of your like GREAT! GO FOR IT! but make sure youre happy with your choice! Good Luck! From a girl who can totally relate!
2007-01-15 18:14:50 · answer #3 · answered by Zee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to step back and take a break from both… go read some books or study hard for a few months. Do something to improve yourself and build self confidence. Guys like woman who are confident, have good morals, and life long accomplishments/goals. If you have these things guys will be tripping over themselves for you.
You are still very young. Don’t learn things the hard way by playing stupid games. You'll only end up hurt. Love is a serious thing TAKE IT SERIOUSLEY AND TAKE YOUR TIME!!
2007-01-15 18:18:57 · answer #4 · answered by Ralph 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your going to do what ever you want to so why post this question ?
Your getting some mental payoff, playing with 2 guys here.
I 'm wondering just what you are up to.
Not considering anyones feeling are you ??
Jumping from one mans bed into another and back again.
Yes you are LOST and confused and your asking us
"What should you do"?
I would say, Go ask your Mother & Good Luck in the future.
May God Bless Your Decision !!!
2007-01-15 18:36:20 · answer #5 · answered by Jill ❤'s U.S.A 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about it and decide if you want to break up with your boyfriend and go back to your ex. Only you know if you are still in love with your ex.
2007-01-15 18:15:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget BOTH of them and MOVE ON!
2007-01-15 18:12:12 · answer #7 · answered by backinbowl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I THINK U SHOULD TAKE A BREAK ON GUYS AND MOVE ON AND TRY TO FIND SUM ONE ELSE AND SEE WUT HAPPENS WITH HIM AND SEE IF UR HEART REALLY LOVE UR OTHER EX
2007-01-15 18:59:49 · answer #8 · answered by lely 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋