Pretty much went out with a couple of good friends and they brang one of theirs. We were drinking, but I don't think she really had that much but didn't see all her drinks. Anyways we end up going back to our friends place, and having sex. I thought me and the girl hit it off well, she was really into me and things ended great. After we were done she told me to call her in a couple days and we would hang and all that making it sound like more, we stayed the whole night together.
However I left in the morning and asked my friends to get the scoop. Basically she says she doesn't really remember, but not to tell me she didn't, and to say that it was good. Before I left in the morning though she should of been sober and I asked if I could should call and she still said yes.
Now the real question is do I just wait a couple and call, or do I just go for broke since she says "she doesn't really remember" and call and say we were both drunk, and if it was just a one night stand?
2007-01-15 10:00:23 · 14 answers · asked by john j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I mean I just don't want to try to invest some time when i'm going to get a no anyways. I really don't think I would have anything to lose if I called today, its not like i'm asking her to do anything, just seeing if she remembers.
2007-01-15 10:01:21 · update #1
Call and get it over with already. She may be lying to save face for sleeping with a guy she had only met that night.
If she blows you off, then you're not out anything anyway.
It sounds like you're not invested in the relationship anyway since there is no real relationship at this point.
2007-01-15 10:05:13 · answer #1 · answered by Lt. Dan reborn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though she told your friend that she doesn't remember, there are two things looking good for you: the fact that she told them not to tell you and the fact that in the morning she told you to call her. If she just wanted a one night stand she would've just admitted that she didn't remember and left it at that. I suggest you call her, tell her that you don't really remember, see if she admits not remembering either, and tell her you would like see her again if possible (if that's what you want)
2007-01-15 18:07:50 · answer #2 · answered by gmatthews86 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should call immediately the poor girl probably feels a bit shy about what she did and is tryint to cover up by acting cool. Call her and go out for a wlak or something and chat a bit. see what you really think without the alcohol. Plus you'll make her feel better for doing so
2007-01-15 18:04:40 · answer #3 · answered by schmoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to call -call but it may be best not to talk too much about what happened if you want to keep seeing her. She may be embarassed. The worst that can happen is that you just had a one night stand. Maybe not if you like her-give her a call.
2007-01-15 18:10:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of investment is a phone call. You can't make a well-informed decision without the necessary information, so get the info you need and proceed from there.
2007-01-15 18:06:08 · answer #5 · answered by rtanys 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, grab hold of your ears and pull your head out. She may have told your friends she doesn't remember because she doesn't want them all up in her business, what goes on between two people should remain between those two people. Concentrate solely on what she said to you, not what your friends claim she said to them...You should call her if you like her and stop letting other people into your business. You didn't sleep with all of them, you slept with her, Or don't you remember...
2007-01-15 18:06:07 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah man call, just don't say anything stupid. keep it casual and don't read too deep into anything she says to you. Shes not your girlfriend. Shes a booty call it's always nice to have at least one in your reserves just in case you get lonely and or drunk. Just keep in mind when you went out you were drinking so you know she wont look half as good as she did that night you "f" t her.
2007-01-15 18:12:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call. IF she doesn't return your call, then you have your answer.
That is a lie about not remembering. People rarely forget those types of things!!!! And if she really forgot, don't mess with her cause she is a big lush!
2007-01-15 19:09:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back off and see if she calls you. If not maybe one day later call her.Maybe shes embarrassed.
2007-01-15 18:05:46 · answer #9 · answered by tewarienormy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chalk it up to a one-nite stand and move on!
2007-01-15 18:07:48 · answer #10 · answered by backinbowl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋