2007-01-15 09:48:55 · 30 answers · asked by ontariopetitelady 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You must keep yourself busy and when your mind wonders to the past reorient yourself to the present and reality. Also get rid of all soveneirs of the relationship unless your partner past away then naturally you would want to keep an item or two.
Time will be the only true healer.
Occupy yourself , time will pass. Good Luck!
2007-01-15 09:53:15 · answer #1 · answered by GrnApl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
broken hearts don't heal easily, and true nothing seems to help when the hurt is new, and not much time has passed. when it happened to me, i spent time with friends, friends i could trust that i could talk things over with. got some spiritual help, tried to keep busy, moved away, started a new life, with a new person. the wound will always be there, but time and distance diminishes the pain. there should be no contact with the person who hurt u, if possible, the more we see them, the worse we feel about what happened. nothing will help for awhile, it is something we just have to work through, and learn from. leaves us a little bit more jaded, and a little less willing to trust. but it happens to us, and it is how we handle it, just have to accept what we can't control, find a meaning for your suffering, help others who may be going through the same thing, and are a little bit less farther down the road than u are. practice unconditional self assurance, and don't measure your self worth by what happened to u as we often do. as if u do it will leave u wide open to chronic insecurity, and a fragile self esteem. i went back home where i felt safe and secure.good luck
2007-01-15 18:03:48 · answer #2 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you need to move on and forget everything that has happened. BEcause in your whole life you will have a broken heart more than one time. SO get over it and go out and find someone you can lean on and make you forget. Also need a friend just IM me anytime.
2007-01-15 17:54:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
These are the times that make us re-evalute our lives, and the direction that life is taking us. Do not think of it as something you did wrong. Breakups happen all the time. Take it as a life lesson.
When the pain subsides, you will be a stronger person. Take this time to focus on other aspects of your life while you recover. Maybe by putting you efforts into something you enjoy, you will find someone with similiar interest?
2007-01-15 17:59:50 · answer #4 · answered by Zeke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right, time is the only thing that helps. The only thing I can think of that is helpful is spend time with your friends and realize that although everything seems bad now and there is no end there are others who have gone though this and totally forgotten about it if you just come to terms with the fact that even though now you can not see thing differently however with time you will that might be helpful just tred water for now (consider yourself lucky for realizing that time is the only option as i know people who have don stupid things to cope)
2007-01-15 18:00:32 · answer #5 · answered by Auther S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That girl is right you should get a dog. Also TIME will help heal your heart as well. I didnt think anything would help mine when my heart was broken late last year but now Iam so much better now!
2007-01-15 17:53:15 · answer #6 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. Just time. Friends mean well, but do you want them having to tiptoe around you?
And no matter how bad if feels at this moment, time truly heals all wounds.
I recommend pajamas, a hot bath, a dreamy chick flick and heavenly hash ice cream. Oh, and that's for tonight.
Tomorrow morning, life goes on. Put a smile on your face and go climb some mountains.
2007-01-15 17:52:07 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are going through a very rough time. My suggestion is to stay busy and don't just waste your life moping around. Take a course your interested in, travel or get involved in some civic organizations. You really won't feel that much better but at least you are doing something productive.
2007-01-15 17:55:08 · answer #8 · answered by Robert O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to keep yourself busy. Try hangin out with your friends as much as possible. Or stay longer at work. Or school. Read books. Paint a picture. Write a short story. Color in a coloring book. Watch movies. Do something to occupy your brain. Do something that requires constant attention and thought.
2007-01-15 17:53:31 · answer #9 · answered by Brandon T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your heart is broken spend a bit of time by yourself and think bout it but dont dwell in it to much go out wit friends have a good time life is to short to be heart borken most of the time and yes it does happen to the best of us but we all just need to get up and be confident and get on with our lives
2007-01-15 17:53:21 · answer #10 · answered by simply happy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋