We having this relationship for 14 months, and we both 32 yrs old. Yet, i often feel doubt and sometimes feeling not good being with him. We having much good times together and this make me feeling more bad about myself. He is kind and always try to satisfy me, but his bahavior is hard to explain...I found many picture of him with ashame pose but he said that was only for fun.I found many written letter like sms or email with sweet words like my love,lovely,and many sweet words to people,he said is only for friends and he doesnt mean to keep them warm...(???)...But he said he love me and want to spent the rest of his life with me..I dont know how should i feel. I can see that he try to change his behavior that i am not happy to see..but i still confuse and in doubt...disquisting photos he made sometimes come to my head and its made me sick...
2007-01-15 09:45:03 · 2 answers · asked by Ludovika N 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Remember that doubt is a normal part of any relationship. It is where you go from there that is so important. You need to talk to him and make certain he knows how you feel. If he is willing to put that behavior aside, then it should not be a problem - just hold on the the good things and ignore the bad images. If he still needs to cling to the behavior that you object to, then you both need to look elsewhere for a relationship
2007-01-15 09:52:13 · answer #1 · answered by Curious1usa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he wants to have you and whoever else he can get at the same time. He isn't that committed to you or he wouldn't be doing those things to upset you. Dump him and find someone who will treat you right and not have time for playing games!!
2007-01-15 09:53:08 · answer #2 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋