Just had a realization... HAd been livign life depedning on near and dear ones and by sugar coating my relations with my family. Have to learn to accept my past (had a tramatic experience). Am also trying to give up control and let the universe take over my life. But, fear what if the universe gives me yet another traumatic experience.
2007-01-15 09:42:25 · 3 answers · asked by . 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
yes you can
start by accepting your bad times as in the past.
stop dwelling on them and look ahead for your future.
sugar coating is never a good thing but sometimes a necessity to survive.
never let the universe or anyone take over your life/ you are the one who should do that. take control and forget your past.
get confidence and self esteem and move on. go slowly at first until you are stronger in will and mind and confidence.
you will be fine .
you will always face bad times all through your life/ you need to control
your fears and take control..
2007-01-15 10:00:45 · answer #1 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hope you will be able to be happy and live each day a new. I am sorry for your bad experiences. Most people have some kind of difficult things to live through. I hope life will be kinder to you from now on.
2007-01-15 17:52:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it's time to take charge of yourself.
Get Dr. Phil's "Life Strategies"
http://www.drphil.com/articles/article/44
2007-01-15 17:51:04 · answer #3 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋